Family And Personal Essay: The Definition Of Family

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Family, one word with so many definitions, but what truly defines what a family is? The Merriam-Webster Dictionary defines family as the following, a group of individuals living under one roof and usually under one head. I like this definition of family because it says nothing about a family being related by blood, but that they are individuals. Personally think that blood doesn’t make you family, being provided and cared for and properly taken care of and loved makes you family. Not all families are blood related, there’s families that have adopted kids, families that have no kids, families that consist of two people and a pet or two. There is no rule that states all families have to have a mother, father, and children. Every family differs …show more content…

My immediate family that I live with consists of me, mom and dad, two little brothers, one little sister and one dog, that’s six people in one home, my family is loud, crazy, funny, and always on the go. But once we get to a family function, all of that is magnified by 100! There’s even times when it get a bit overwhelming to be around my dad’s side of the family, since we’re mostly around that side. My nana, which is my dad’s mom, so my grandma, is where all of the barbecues and birthday parties and random get togethers take place. For almost any occasion, football games, UFC fights, boxing matches, or just for a random get together, that’s where you’ll find me and my family. There doesn’t ever really need to be a special event for my family to get together, well at least on my dad’s side. Being with dad’s side of the family is almost always a good time filled with love and laughter, we all genuinely enjoys each other’s company. My mom’s side however, we usually only go around when there’s a birthday or some kind of special event. My mom’s side of the family is...complicated. I love them dearly, but there’s always some kind of drama with them. The times when everyone is actually getting along, it’s a blast. Whenever my family has a quince or a wedding or a big birthday party, …show more content…

In many ways Christmas is similar to Thanksgiving in the way we celebrate it. We switch sides, sometimes Christmas is at our house, tons of food is made and we play games. Depending on what side of the family we’re spending Christmas with, there’s a theme, for example, about two or three years ago we spent Christmas with my mom’s side of the family and it was a pajama party and last Christmas we spent with my dad’s side the theme was ugly Christmas sweaters. Every year no matter where we spend Christmas, we always have to get some of my great grandma’s amazing and delicious Champurrado. She makes Champurrado every single year, she won’t tell anyone how she makes it for some reason, but her Champurrado is like heaven in a cup. On both sides of my family,it’s tradition for us get together on Christmas Eve and we have dinner, watch movies, play games, and even take naps, all until midnight and that’s when we open our presents. Also, on both sides, the adults do White Elephant and sometimes depending on what the majority vote is, they’ll do a secret santa exchange. The only thing my mom’s side of the family does differently than my dad’s, is that prior to getting together on Christmas Eve, the adults put each kid’s name in a hat and each person draws a name, and the name they draw is the kid they have to buy a gift for, and they’ll say the least or most amount of money they can spend on that gift.

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