Around the age of 6 my mom was hospitalized because she had extreme headaches, and that’s when she found out she had a tumor in her brain. She kept this a secret from me because she didn’t want to see me suffer more than what I already was. About a week after she found out the news of her tumor, my mom was obligated to tell me because she had to go to Florida to get surgery, since the hospitals in Peru did not have the proper equipment to do this surgery. After my mother broke the news to me, we both started crying. I did not know much about tumors, but I did know that it was a life threatening disease. The next day my mom and I went to the doctor to find out what procedure she should take to not put her life at risk. In that same appointment, we found out the pricy amount of the surgery. With my mom’s salary and all of our expenses, it was going to be impossible to pay for the operation, and my mom had to make the tough decision to postpone
Throughout the years of my life, I have had to deal with people that I love dearly suffer from cancer. When I was 10 years old, I lost my father to cancer. It was a devastating blow to my life, even though I was young and didn’t really understand what was going on, the impact that it played made on me, made me think what was the point of living. As time went on many people that played a special role in my life died of cancer, and many survived and fought the dangerous disease. Just a year ago, another person to me that meant the world to me told me that they had cancer, and that was my mother. The first thing I thought, death, and how was I going to cope with it. My mother always taught me to think positive before negative, but the word cancer makes you think of death being the fact that it’s a deadly disease. Eventually my mother overcame the disease and is doing well, despite some things that she can’t do anymore due to the effects of radiation. Radiation has not changed my mother at all, but it has made her a wiser person, and she is not ashamed to tell anyone her story.
Everyone knows that cancer is a horrible disease. The American Cancer Society has said that 1 in 3 people will be diagnosed with cancer in their lifetime. Families, including my own, are affected by this disease every day. I know that any person of any age can be diagnosed with cancer. Cancer changes the lives of anybody connected with it dramatically. And I am here to tell you how it altered my life. I am here to tell you how in six short weeks, I lost one of the most important people of my lives. And how a year later I have never felt a day of pure happiness due to the affects of cancer. And how every holiday now feels so empty, as if I have a big hole in my heart.
When I was four years old, my mother was diagnosed with stage three stomach cancer. There were four of us children all under the age of six, and
The ride home had been the most excruciating car ride of my life. Grasping this all new information, coping with grief and guilt had been extremely grueling. As my stepfather brought my sister and I home, nothing was to be said, no words were leaving my mouth.Our different home, we all limped our ways to our beds, and cried ourselves to sleep with nothing but silence remaining. Death had surprised me once
Obstacles are what mold us to be the person we will be and just like any other person out there I have had my share of problems. It still astonishes me how drastically one moment, one sentence, one word can impact your life. The moments you can never forget no matter how much you wish you could, those moments never fade away. I found that receiving news that something was found during my mother’s Doctors visit was excruciatingly adruous. The thought of her actually being sick drove me insane. The thought of not having the only person out there rooting for me, being there for me hurt so much that even when she wasn’t gone it was painful.
One fateful day at the end of June in 1998 when I was spending some time at home; my mother came to me with the bad news: my parent's best friend, Tommy, had been diagnosed with brain cancer. He had been sick for some time and we all had anxiously been awaiting a prognosis. But none of us were ready for the bumpy roads that lay ahead: testing, surgery, chemotherapy, nausea, headaches, and fatigue. Even loud music would induce vomiting. He just felt all around lousy.
The first story I read was from parents of a young child who had been stricken with the disease. Barbara and Steven’s son, Joshua got diagnosed with cancer at the age of seven. This is a very young age to deal with having a lethal disease attacking your body not only for the child who is stricken with it but also the parents. Being that the child is so young, it’s an extra burden on the parents to take care of the child. Once he was treated for the disease, the mental mindset of having cancer set in. The disease not only ate away at Josh’s body but also on the family as a whole. I never realized how much strain is put on the parents. The anxiety that they were feeling can’t be matched. Every time they went for treatment or even a routine follow-up exam, the anxiety built. Not knowing what was going to come out of it was probably...
In life, people face several hardships and challenges, whether it is financial, emotional, or physical. But as many successful people would say, it is not the hardship that defines a person, but it is the reaction to the challenge that truly defines that person. I like everyone have been through some of those challenges, and I see that it is through hardships that help mold me as the student I am today.
t was a sunny Friday morning when the news arrived. The perfect weather was an ironic slap to the face as we endured one of the worst days of our lives. A shrill ring from the phone grabbed the attention of all of us. The image of my mother’s face is burned into my memory forever. As she hung up the phone, I already knew the news was not what we had expected. She burst into tears as my father held her, tears falling from his own eyes. That day she was diagnosed with ductal carcinoma in situ, a form of breast cancer. That day was her 50th birthday.