Evaluating Mr and Mrs Bennet as Parents
In the 21st century, the definition of a 'good parent' remains clouded
and vague. It is basically down to the judgement of the parent raising
their children in a way that they view appropriate. The same goes for
the 18th century and every other century before and beyond.
Parenting styles can be influenced by society's expectations and ideas
of what 'good parenting' is. This goes for Mr and Mrs Bennet in Pride
and Prejudice. Their relative roles can be contrasted as a mother who
is blinded by appearance, regarding wealth and status highly and a
father who looks beyond appearances to dig deeper into a person's
character.
Mr and Mrs Bennet live at Longbourn, Hertfordshire and have five
daughters and no sons. They are a middle class family; therefore Mr
and Mrs Bennet are desperate to see their daughters well married to
safeguard their future.
In the search of a husband for their daughters, Mr Bennet values a
loving union whereas Mrs Bennet values social status. The opening
chapter sets the scene of the novel, highlighting the tension between
these two very different characters. It begins with Mr Bennet mocking
his wife: Mr Bennet understands the importance of Mr Bingleys visit
but acts up his disinterest, "You are over scrupulous surely."
(Chapter one)
For Mrs Bennet, it is more important to marry off her daughters to
eligible, young men without concern for their emotional well-being,
"She was a woman of mean understanding, little information and
uncertain temper." (Chapter one) This may be deemed as bad con...
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...ith one concern - marriage.
In the 18th century class was of great importance. Class covered a
wide range in aspects of society and wealth. The way people were
behaving and misbehaving characterised them as a member of the social
group. This including Mr and Mrs Bennet.
The relationship between Mr and Mrs Bennet appears to be false. They
share very little in common, Mrs Bennet investing her time marrying
her daughters off and Mr Bennet, escaping into his books. On a deeper
level however, if either one of them were to fall ill one would be as
much hurt as the other.
With respect to their relationship with their daughters, Mr Bennet
shows signs of love and care as much as Mrs Bennet does in her own
way, and they are a good mother and father to the extent that nobody
is a perfect human being or a perfect parent.
toward one of the main characters, Dorothea Brooke. She is portrayed as a plain girl who cares
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