Essay On Cultural Culture In Nigeria

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CULTURAGRAM IN FAMILY I am from Owerri, Imo State southern Nigeria, which population is 5.5 million, the language is Igbo, Igbos is subfamily of the Niger-Congo language, the family and our religion is tribal. We Igbos are the second largest group of people living in Southern Nigeria. We are socially and culturally diverse, consisting of many subgroups, however, we live in a scattered group of villages. I was married and I have a daughter, she was three years old and had only seen her father when she was two years, but before she was born and after giving birth to her he did not come to Nigeria, except when she was two years. So I thought it was time to go and live with him in the United State as a family, which did not work out …show more content…

Each community has different festivals celebrated in honor of ancient deities or to mark an important event in the history of the area. There are different festivals to usher in the harvest season of which the most culture. Part of the culture of the state is the traditional hospitality to visitors, which begins with the presentation of kola nuts to the visitor. The kola nut signifies that the visitor is heartily welcomed. The ritual of the presentation of the kola nut is consummated with the offering of prayers and thanksgiving or petition to the supreme God and other deities, for the protection of the visitor and the host. Masquerades and festivals. In the past the elders used masquerades as a means of maintaining peace and order, it is also used as law enforcement agents, this is how it works during the festivals or rites, or any social gathering. The masqueraders would walk up to certain individuals and loudly expose any bad habits, crimes or misbehavior of that person. The masquerades identity is a well-kept secret and performed exclusively by men, masquerades comes out on occasional events such as community native calendars, during festivals, annual festivals, burin rites and the Igbos beliefs, they represent some dead relatives. The calendars comprises of four market days (Eke, Orie, Afo and Nkwo) the beginning and ending of the year are marked in …show more content…

My future choices were guided by my past life experiences due to my upbringing in my matrimonial family set up, and had so many insults coupled with the fact that my friends with whom we grew up together had finished their college education and I am still struggling with my adult education. I had received insults about not being a college graduate and I had to decide that it is time for me to pursue my education. I have seen my extended family members whom are college graduates and in love with them each time they visit our home and they in turn always encourage me or offered me an assistance to further my education. I am a single mother, I work as a CNA, and have been separated for 10 years. After a careful thought and so much consideration, I had to summon courage to proceed and continue my college education.
I had a variety of fears in my heart in furthering my education. Firstly, I had my younger ones to take care of in Nigerian and other parts of the country. I was responsible for their high school education. I make sure that my younger siblings continued and completed their education. As the eldest daughter of my family, I had promised my late father before his death that I will make it humanly and financially possible to take care of my younger ones until they are of age to take care of themselves or until they get married and be

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