Essay About The Difference Between Childhood And Adulthood

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There are a lot of changes between childhood and being a teenager. For me, the most dramatic change has occurred recently. I have started to see the world as a new place. A place where drinking and drugs are a common problems and peer pressure isn’t something you are warned about. Friends that you know since your childhood begins to do things you don't agree with, and eventually friends turned into strangers. Being a person who's in between childhood and adulthood is not easy. Adolescence is one stage in our lives that can occur only once. During this stage a person undergoes physical development and mental development. A lot of things can change, in a positive or negative way, all you have to do is to accept and to be with it. In those changes,…show more content…
Once a person receives his/her college degree, people sees him/her as a person who is responsible and has a goals in life. Many adolescents nowadays doesn't value education. The see it as a thief of their time, it stoles their time to enjoy life. In order to be a responsible adolescent we have to set our goals as early as now, time won't wait for you, you should run after it. Second, established a good relationship between your parents and relatives. Being an adolescent, we should always listen to their advices because in terms of experience they know more than us. This maybe easier to say than do because in our stage many teenagers are having a hard time to maintain a good relationship between their parents. For me, creating a good communication with them will do good because they are the ones you can lean on and can understand you more in times of problems. Third, have a lot of time to think before doing things. Evaluate what would be the pro's and con's of your decision. And in every decision that you will make always keep in mind that you are accountable for what will happen. It is part of growing up and being an…show more content…
I experienced mine recently, I lost a friend that I valued the most. I gave her my trust, shares my secrets and treated her a sister but all I got in return is her talking behind my back and even making stories about me that's not true. I was hurt, I never experienced a friend doing something like that. What pains me the most is that I don't have someone to share this to. I'm living with my grandparents that I'm not close to. I can't share things to them because they're not a good listener, they always have a say on things and put all the blame on me. For my mom, I don't want to disturb her. She's working abroad and sending a message to her about what's happening to me would just add up to all that she's thinking. I don't want to be a burden. I know I have other friends at school but at that time I can't think straight, I have this feeling that 'should I trust them like I trusted her?'. I don't want to hurt their feelings because of my thoughts about them. Every night I cried, I don't even know why, maybe for others it's not a big thing but for me I value my friends. I don't want to lose any of them. For me, they are the only thing that won't leave me. It came to the point that I can't eat and sleep, my grandparents are not even asking me of what I've been going through but I know that they knew I have a problem, that I'm crying at night but I'm afriad to talk to them. Over the weekend when I deactivated all my
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