FORBIDDEN FRIENDS Perhaps you see someone at a party and wish you were friends, but face the reality that you aren’t meant to be friends with everyone you desire. Regardless of what you want, your personality type (or theirs) just might not be compatible. Of course you won’t know if someone is a potential friend until you actually try to be friends. That means some of your attempts may fail, but don't get frustrated and quit trying if a relationship don’t work out. Eventually you’ll find a compatible person unless you are looking for friends in the wrong places or haven’t dealt with your issues that can hinder friendships.
People are different in their perception, behavior and the way they react to situations. Even close friends will sometimes have different opinion about specific issues. Whatever I believe is right some others may believe it is wrong, and here is the test for a long lasting friendship. Social intelligence allows people to be lenient with each other and permit a range of forgiveness. It is important to overlook the mistakes of our friends as long as we want this friendship to last forever.
We think everyone will adore us, but we eventually find out that they don't. Some people we will harmonize with, and others we won't. It's just the way life goes, and those who do like us usually end up as our friends. It's like the old saying goes; to have friends, be one. This does not mean you have to be the perfect friend, but you have to at least try.
Most of the time it is a quick argument that ends in a better understanding of the others feelings. But sometimes friendships are hurt and it could take a very long time to repair the friendship, if it even could be repaired. Support of a friend is one of the most important things that a friendship can offer. Letting a buddy know that one is behind them in whatever they do and that one will support them in the decision they make is a good foundation for friendship. Even though one might not make the same choices that their friend does, they will still support whatever decision their friend makes.
The level of warmth and concern you project to others In level of warmth and concern which I projects to others are rarely little bit confusing and stressful for me but I mostly do my best to handle it correctly. Capacity and willingness to make changes In condition to make changes, I mostly do prefer for positive change rather than follow any negative steps. When I asked these questions to three peoples and I got some different replies from all of them. When my parents gave me a feedback and they did with some examples from real lives of their own and some other relatives. I just felt some shameless because they mostly try to taunt on me.
The person should be kind, understanding and loving. Being great listeners and able to give helpful advice is a plus. Having optimistic and motivational vibes are always good to have in a friend. If they do not have any of these characteristics, it probably means the friendship will not be long lasting. Also a good friend should be someone who can comfort another when they are feeling down.
The way that a person holds their body speaks volumes about their attitude and general demeanor. One should appear relaxed and not tense, but not uncaring or apathetic. The key to exhibiting good body language in any kind of interaction is to have good emotional awareness. It’s mostly a matter of accurately reading other people, and responding to their cues with appropriate reactions. A well placed nod or smile can go a long way toward conveying to the other person that you understand and appreciate what they are saying.
You won 't feel uncertain about what you want to do next. You will understand who you are and make choices based on that understanding. And, you will be able to say no to people when you need to. One of the most rewarding things about knowing yourself is that you can hold your head up high and be confident telling other people who you are. That confidence will feel amazing, and people will respect you for it.
Walker shows that in mother and daughter relationships adaptation to change can be hard in a variety of ways. First, Dee, Mother's oldest daughter, comes home to visit her mother and little sister Maggie. When she shows up, she introduces herself as "Wangero Leewanika Kemanjo" (416). Her mother is confused about why she wants to change her name, since it was the one that was passed down. Dee explains that the other name did not suit her.
When the story begins, Gilly is very unhappy. She is eleven years old and unkempt. In the opening chapter we see her first meeting Maime Trotter and her opinion of her is not a nice one. Gilly thinks that the only way she can be happy is to find her mother and live with her. As she does not live with her mother she feels the need to rebel so that The Social Services will send her to her mother.