Song: Independent women
Artist: Destiny’s child
Concepts/Theory: Feminism/ Material culture
Discussion:
Feminists are some of the most feared individuals in the world due to their power, intelligence and determination. Beyoncé is one of those individuals who has had the power during the long years of her career to introduce feminism in popular North American culture. A personal favorite, “Independent Women” by Destiny’s child possesses the most powerful feminist lyrics. This songs brings up a few questions about the role of independent women. Mostly importantly, why should women have to depend on men to get what they want? Why should women feel a need to wait for men? Why can’t women do what they want and believe in themselves to get where
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In this song, “Stan”, Eminem is able to highlight the main issues through the eyes of others. Why is it that Eminem is being judged through the eyes of others when he has spent his life defending himself through lyrics? Why is it that Eminem is looking at a mirror that is actually reflecting back images of other people’s perspectives? He is rapping a letter about the problems people have had with him that he already knows along with this own personal experiences. This song, however, ties into the Looking Glass Self aspect of sociology because he is writing to himself about his struggles and the assumptions people have about him. The Looking Glass Self aspect of sociology looks at how we see ourselves from how we believe others see us. Eminem proves this especially when he said: “C’mon, how f***** up is you? You got some issues Stan; I think you need some counseling. I really think you and your girlfriend need each other. Or maybe you just need to treat her better.” This depicts the “Looking Glass Self” concept perfectly. One person is telling how mentally unstable he is and that he needs help, another person is telling him that he needs to be with his girlfriend, and another person is telling him that he needs to treat his girlfriend better. This is an exact illustration if he were to be standing in front of mirrors and each mirror would be displaying a different image of him through …show more content…
However, by examining through the sociological lens in this course, one can learn that this song is specifically discussing about displaying deviant behaviour, social norm conformation as well as violation, marriage, divorce, and so on. Bruno Mars’ expanded on the choice of marriage because our society we tend to idolize marriage or wedding as something perfect. Something a girl plans ever since she first sees a wedding dress. It is a rite of passage to some cultures, but this song devalues almost artificial meanings of marriage. Also, Bruno Mars illustrates deviant behaviour in the song by portraying two people getting married for “fun,” and ignoring to ask permission to marry from parents or talking about it seriously between them. This type of deviant behaviour can lead to future problems as well as lack of happiness, which can cause an affect on an individuals life. Secondly, though drinking is not viewed as violation of our social norm, being drunk to the point that they’re “trashed” and marrying someone is. In our society, marrying someone is a big commitment and is not something that they should be if they’re “trashed” or under the influence of alcohol, “dancing juice,” that they can’t make sound judgment. Marrying someone just because they’re “looking for something dumb to do,” is not only violating the social norm, it shows the minimal courtship in the relationship. It’s likely that the marriage was
Shaw, Susan M., and Janet Lee. Women's Voices, Feminist Visions: Classic and Contemporary Readings. New York: McGraw-Hill, 2012. Print.
In her song, Caillat comments on the expectations put to women, the effects that trying to achieve them can have, and the importance of breaking free from these expectations. Feminist criticism of Caillat’s song shows that it offers empowerment to women being themselves and learning to be happy with who they are. Although the obvious central message is aimed at women, the underlying message of accepting one’s self and acknowledging that one doesn’t have to strive to meet the media’s standards can also be applied to society as a whole. Men and women alike of all ages can take this underlying message in the song and use it in their own lives in order to learn that it is okay to step outside societal norms and to not worry what others think of them.
Throughout history society has been controlled by men, and because of this women were exposed to some very demanding expectations. A woman was expected to be a wife, a mother, a cook, a maid, and sexually obedient to men. As a form of patriarchal silencing any woman who deviated from these expectations was often a victim of physical, emotional, and social beatings. Creativity and individuality were dirty, sinful and very inappropriate for a respectful woman. By taking away women’s voices, men were able to remove any power that they might have had. In both Alice Walker’s “The Color Purple” and Kate Chopin’s “The Awakening”, we see that there are two types of women who arise from the demands of these expectations. The first is the obedient women, the one who has buckled and succumbed to become an empty emotionless shell. In men’s eyes this type of woman was a sort of “angel” perfect in that she did and acted exactly as what was expected of her. The second type of woman is the “rebel”, the woman who is willing to fight in order to keep her creativity and passion. Patriarchal silencing inspires a bond between those women who are forced into submission and/or those who are too submissive to maintain their individuality, and those women who are able and willing to fight for the ability to be unique.
...d independence is another great dilemma that I think many women go through, especially those in professional arenas and takes many of them a long time to resolve the two. Growing up in a matriarchal family, my mother has always instilled through actions the need for a woman to be independent. She raised my sister and I alone and I have seen her struggle with this dilemma, when she remarried. As Kolbenschlag said, often dependency is equated to domination, which is not what most women want. I think that sometimes everyone wishes that they had someone that they could lean on, especially through trying times, but that doesn't mean they want that person to take over the situation. I also do not believe that for a woman to be considered "independent" she must give up her femininity and individuality. In my opinion a male-dominated society has no authority to dictate the characteristics of femininity to a woman.
Female Independence in Catharine Maria Sedgewick's Hope Leslie and Kelly Clarkson's Song "Miss Independent" Authors have addressed the topic of female independence in various literary styles, including novels, novellas, and poetry. In our society today, independence for women is one of the main topics of many songs. The concept of female independence has changed over the years; people have gone from frowning upon female independence to celebrating it. Both Catharine Maria Sedgewick and pop singer Kelly Clarkson address female behavior that now, in the 21st century, is typical of many women. In Sedgewick’s Hope Leslie, the title character portrays a young woman that defies her society’s repressive Puritanical standards; she portrays independence, courage, and outspokenness.
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