Do It for the Children

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Every girl has a unique set of experiences, talents, relationships, and struggles. It is ordinary fact for teen girls to want to feel independent, but it is not typical if they start to act out in dangerous extremes. Girls are especially known to explore new things, but they do not make serious changes in their personality from nowhere. There is always a reason for behavioral changes, and it is parent’s responsibility to identify and help their daughter with her problems. Her personality could change after a recent event, or it may be something deep-rooted. Most negative events that happened at ages 2, 3 or 4 help to shape children's personalities. By the time girls become teenagers, they have been living with the resulting pain for most of their lives. Young girls may feel pain or anger, but they lack the ability to act on those emotions. However, teen girls are able to act on these feelings with more lasting, and harmful, consequences.
Couple weeks ago on TV were shown a very informative program about troubled teen girls of our centaury. There is a lot of studies which show that the rate of teen girls today in juvenile system increased for past couple years. Sociologists agree that they see more and more violent teen girls in our society. They have couple interesting ideas of such dramatic increase of troubled teen girls. One of them is that the meaning of a “teen” girl changed over times, and now young girls have much more opportunities to make bad decisions and go down the wrong path than they did in the past years. This is a huge issue in our modern society because these teen girls are our future generation. They are future women and mothers. If girls want to carry these tittles, they are supposed to prove it to our society...

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...behavior than does merely having parents physically present. A new and interesting detail in this chapter was the portion of the study’s data that showed the statistics of a majority of American teen girls and boys ages 12 through 15 who said their main concern is not having enough time with their parents. Percentage of teenagers, who said their parents could not spend time with them because they are too busy, too tired and stressed, or would rather be with friends around 35% (Gilbert). This shows how many parents do not put spending time with their children on the top of their priority list. They do not realize that their children's bad behavior is a consequence from not spending enough time with them. Family involvement can decrease rates of troubled girls, but if parents already lost their child, they must participate in treatment program which their child does.

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