Dialogue Differences In Romantic Relationships

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During this interaction project, I observed two different sets of dyads. I specifically chose to do one set of romantic partners and one set acquaintances, I believed it would be interesting to see the dialogue differences between two opposite relationships. The first relationship I observed was between my sister and brother-in-law who are involved in a romantic relationship. I did not originally plan on observing them until after I sat down in the same room and asked what they were currently talking about. My sister received a phone call from my nephews teacher concerning his behavior at recess earlier in the day. I immediately started laughing knowing what he is capable of. As I waited for her to explain why she received a phone call she …show more content…

As for my brother and sister, their conversation was genuine and had feeling within it. They were concerned about their sons behavior and needed to communicate in order to solve the problem. The bartender and the older gentleman did not necessarily need to have a conversation but he fancied the bartender and she just went along with short conversation to save her job, as well as her tip. Body language also gave away how willingly they were to talk to each other. My brother-in-law put his hand on my sisters thigh in order to comfort her and to feel close, whereas the bartender rolled her eyes and continued to turn away from the man. Body language within these two dyads gave away their relationship with one another. A romantic relationship will allow the other person within their personal space where as only an acquaintance must keep their distance. This interaction project was very interesting to observe. I never paid attention to others body language as well as eye contact when talking to others let alone in conversation with me. I believe we are so used to using this non-verbal communication that we fail to observe and interpret others. After observing, I will be more aware of others body language as well as reactions to dialogue among myself and others in the

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