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“Sometimes it's the smallest decisions that can change your life forever. “Keri Russell
We all had decisions we made in life. Some decisions were good and some were bad. But that’s life. The good decision becomes life changing while the bad becomes a life experience and a lesson. As I quote Keri Russell, it’s true; the smallest decision does have a big impact on your life. Now, the best decision I ever made was calling 911 when I knew there was something up with my father. Now in my family, most of us are hard headed and refuse to believe in the situation that’s happening. But for me, I had to act quickly. With this decision I made I also thought about my future. Not only did I save my father’s life, I still have him in my life and for other people who loves him.

It was around February 2011 when I was in my bedroom and my dad comes back from his work. Usually he comes back around 10pm but he came pretty early. Now my father is an amazing man who’s hard working. He’s a very caring person that helps everyone out. But when he comes back he was infuriated, irked, and he was suffering from a headache. As a young girl I was, I thought it was just usual ruthless days. So I thought to myself, he just needs time to himself. As usual, I went back to my laptop to just casually watch music videos of bands or just go to the strange side of YouTube. That probably explains why I’m like this right now. Two days past and my dad was still suffering from his headache. We took him to the doctor but they thought he had a migraine so it’s like okay then. We didn’t put much thought into the situation until he stopped working. That’s when we knew something was out of the ordinary. Yet again, my family just thought it would be cured. And that’s when ...

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...y feel better and just improve their lives. And I realized that they bring a huge blissful smile to see that there loved ones are now okay and the will improve. Ever since this day I strived on getting better grades and I decided to make plans even though I was young. Until this day, I’m still striving to be a doctor or a surgeon. And until this day I still have my father with me, better than ever. Though the tumor did cause some damage to his brain, which affects his mood, he’s still the strongest and most caring man I know.

In conclusion, we all have decisions that will change our lives. Up to this point, that will always be my greatest decision. I have my future set and my father here by my side. As Edward de Bono said “An expert is someone who has succeeded in making decisions and judgments simpler through knowing what to pay attention to and what to ignore.”

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