The mythological tale “Cupid and Psyche” is a story about love, in which Psyche has desperate desire for a husband. When Psyche finally receives a lover, Cupid, her curiosity takes over, and she betrays his wishes. Cupid flees, and Psyche must complete tasks to prove her love for Cupid. This story can be applied to love today, because it shares three important lessons about love: love cannot exist where there is no trust, wit, patience, and bravery are necessary traits to have in a relationship, and if you keep trying, heart and soul will be united.
The first important lesson in the Story, “Cupid and Psyche” is that love can not exist when there is no trust. Trust is one of the most important aspects in a relationship, without it there is no true love. Someone must have trust so he or she is able to share their true feelings with confidence. Cupid and Psyche go through the struggle of trusting one another. In the story, Psyche has been sent to a hilltop because she has no love and must be left alone. As she is waiting on the hilltop, the wind carries her to a meadow where a mansion stands. Throughout the day, although alone, she felt like her husband would appear that night. As she had expected, she felt her husband behind her. She never saw her husband, but but she could feel and hear him. One night her husband warned that her sisters were coming to the mountain top to mourn her, and he says,”but you must not let them see you or you will pay great sorrow upon me and ruin yourself.” He later said ”Do what you will, but you are seeking your own destruction.” The next morning Psyche met her sisters and brought them back to her palace. Her sisters were filled with envy. They began plotting against Psyche and planted the seed in he...
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...che’s heart and soul are now one forever.
The themes in “Cupid and Psyche” can be applied to the lives of every human on Earth. The theme love can’t exist where there is no trust can be applied to any kind of relationship. whether it be mother and daughter or boss and employee. Trust is the foundation of any relationship. Also, some necessary traits for a relationship are bravery, wit, and patience. With these qualities someone can easily become successful in life.
Bravery is important so a person can do things he or she isn’t comfortable with. Wit is important so someone can think outside of the box, and go out of the way to make tasks easier, and patience is important so people can take time and enjoy little things in life.Keep trying is the last lesson that can be applied to the life of others. People should never give up so what they want will come true.
Young love , a thrilling time for many . A time in where blinded young-lings cross a field unknown . A field in which one must undergo challenges and temptations . Here we have a young girl that encounters a young man , a typical boy meets girl scenarios , So it would seem . The desire to be loved can drive a person to do the craziest of things ; we are all walking proof of that . As young children one learns to express emotion through every gesture and every facial expression , through that process one realizes ones self hatred with rejection . Living in a world in which we strive to be accepted and crave to be desired . In society each gender faces different experiences ; as a man one expects a provider , a leader , a hunter and as a women
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In Till We Have Faces, C. S. Lewis retells the myth of Cupid and Psyche from the point of view of Psyche's sister, with powerful insight into the nature of human affection and the relationship between human and divine. In the original myth, Psyche is the youngest of three princesses, so beautiful that men begin to worship her instead of Venus. The goddess avenges herself by commanding that Psyche be exposed on a mountain to die, but her son Cupid secretly rescues her, having fallen in love with her. He hides her in a palace where he visits her nightly, but he forbids her to see his face for fear of his mother. After a time Psyche is granted a visit from her sisters; seeing the splendor of her palace, they are jealous. They tell her that her "husband" must be some horrible monster, and they persuade her to disobey the god's command and light a lamp while he sleeps, to see if it is not so. This she does, but he wakes and rebukes her, and she goes into exile to be tested until worthy of her husband. Lewis's retelling makes the god's palace invisible to mortal eyes; thus Psyche's sister Orual, the narrator of the tale, can insist it is not jealousy but concern for Psyche that motivates her to act as she does. Told from Orual's point of view, the story shows her journey to self-discovery and understanding--her quest to find her face, for as she learns, the gods cannot "meet us face to face till we have faces"--until we know our own selves. Faces are thus a strong source of imagery and symbolism in the book. One's face is a reflection of one's soul and true character. It is, symbolically, one's identity. The faces of Orual and Psyche, of Ungit and her son the God of the Grey Mountain, give us insight into their ...
Furthermore, this couple will get divorced because of their opposite thoughts. Men and women are two different species, and sometimes those differences stand in a way of their relationships. It is obvious that the characters in this poem can not find any equilibrium in their feelings. Every action of these characters showed negativity, which predicted their final separation.
In the play “Romeo and Juliet”, Shakespeare shows that love has power to control one’s actions, feelings, and the relationship itself through the bond between a destined couple. The passion between the pair grew strong enough to have the capability to do these mighty things. The predestined newlyweds are brought down a rocky road of obstacles learning love’s strength and the meaning of love.
These lessons and traits I have taught myself, have helped me become a better person with a dependable future. Forgive all who wrong you, love your family and friends, but love your enemies more. Treat others the way you want to be treated. Remember that obtaining perfection is impossible in your life on earth and remember that you show who you are through your actions, not what you look like. Be grateful of your current state; you are alive and can change the world and all who inhabit it through your actions and words. Help, give, and pray for the less fortunate. “If you bring forth what is within you, what you bring forth will save you. If you do not bring forth what is within you, what you do not bring forth will destroy you.”-Jesus Christ.
In conclusion, the the story of Cupid and Psyche is very powerful. It has many different feelings such as, love and jealous. Venus was jealous of Psyche but that got her nowhere because Psyche became her daughter in law. Love overcame Psyche's mistake of breaking Cupid’s promise. In the end they were married with a daughter.
There are many similarities between the different versions of Cupid and Psyche. There was a king who had three daughters, but out of all three of them Psyche was the most beautiful person that seemed like a goddess. Her beauty spanned the earth and men from all over the earth wandered to admire her beauty. Venus’ temples were abandoned and no one gave a thought of her. Venus called for her son, Cupid, to help her ruin Psyche by making her fall in love with the meanest and hateful man in the world. When Cupid laid his eyes upon Psyche he fell in love with her. Psyche was only admired but was never loved. Her father went to an oracle of Apollo and asked for his advice. Psyche was on the high hilltop when Zephyr lifted her up and laid her down in a valley. She heard voices inside her head even though she couldn’t see them saying, “We are your servants. Ready to do whatever you desire.” Cupid told Psyche that the...
Love is not a god as the fine philosophers of Greece once suggested. Love is something far more powerful and universal, for not all people believe in gods, yet people cannot refuse the existence of love. Instead, love is a condition of the human body that cannot be denied. True love is obstinate; in the way that music pours into the ears of an audience, love pouring into the heart of a man cannot be stopped, denied, or set off course. Love is a natural instinct. You cannot artificially make love where there is none or where it does not belong. Yet, the condition of being in love grows independent of all rationale. It grows places where an observer may not understand its existence. Attempting to fight love in such a situation leaves even powerful and noble families, such as the Capulets and Montagues, suddenly powerless. When love takes control of two souls, it takes the lovers on a journey. The journey is the growth of love throughout its many progressive stages. In this way, the growth of love between two people is analogous to the growth and development of a painted masterpiece. A work of art and a bond of love both have distinct stages and characteristics. A painting initially begins with a vision in the mind of the artist. This vision is a perfect vision that the artist will strive to replicate on her canvas. Similarly, love often begins on a visual level based on the physical attractions between two people. The vision of the painter is soon transformed into quick, loose sketches. The pencil freely marks the page; the artist has no control over where it goes, he merely paints. Similarly, lovers have no control over their new feeling of love that has taken over their bodies and rendered them helpless. After an artist has loos...
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Although written in the olden times, one of Apuleius’s story collections in the book of Metamorphoses entitled "The Tale of Cupid and Psyche" relates to the modern age issue of marriage and relationship. It reflects and gives hopes to some relationships that started wrong but ended up good. I will examine the story of “The Tale of Cupid and Psyche” and will relate its relevance to the modern times.