On April 22, 2008, Anita passed after sustaining injuries she received from a domestic violence altercation. Despite the many trials in her life, she led a happy life and could always find humor in any situation. Always willing to lend a helping hand, one might consider her a natural caregiver. Happy, comedic, and a bit eccentric are words used to describe Anita. Her family would never could have imagined she would meet her tragic demise at such a young age. Oblivious to the abuse in their short and tumultuous relationship, no one was aware of her situation. She sustained injuries from a blunt force trauma during a domestic dispute with her boyfriend. Suffering from a horrific headache after the assault, her mother took her to the local hospital. The family received the disturbing call that would change the entire family dynamic. Anita was hospitalized due to injuries sustained from her boyfriend. She had reported the assault to the hospital employees, and then slipped into a coma (Desert Dispatch). Flown to a better equipped facility, neurological surgeons performed surgery in an attempt to salvage her life. The members of her family arrived at the facility not knowing what to expect. Life support machines breathing life into her, the family was distraught. The neurologist asked her sister’s to meet with him in the conference room. They knew what he would say, and devastation overtook them. Declining brain activity from one day to the next, the doctor stated that if she survived, she would awake into a vegetative state and require institutionalization. Anita’s family made a unanimous decision and did not want her to live without any quality of life. Immediately, family and friends showed up later and with heartach...
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...ally assist battered women. Women who are considering leaving an abusive partner should contact local authorities or victim service agencies for information for help and resources available to you. Make a plan to ensure the safety of yourself and your children. Restraining orders can be ordered by a judge to ensure that you will no longer be contacted, threatened or injured by your abusive mate. If you or someone you know is a victim of abuse call 1-800-799-SAFE for help.
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Diane was a patient of Dr. Timothy Quill, who was diagnosed with acute myelomonocytic leukemia. Diane overcame alcoholism and had vaginal cancer in her youth. She had been under his care for a period of 8 years, during which an intimate doctor-patient bond had been established. It was Dr. Quill’s observation that “she was an incredibly clear, at times brutally honest, thinker and communicator.” This observation became especially cogent after Diane heard of her diagnosis. Dr. Quill informed her of the diagnosis, and of the possible treatments. This series of treatments entailed multiple chemotherapy sessions, followed by a bone marrow transplant, accompanied by an array of ancillary treatments. At the end of this series of treatments, the survival rate was 25%, and it was further complicated in Diane’s case by the absence of a closely matched bone-marrow donor. Diane chose not to receive treatment, desiring to spend whatever time she had left outside of the hospital. Dr. Quill met with her several times to ensure that she didn’t change her mind, and he had Diane meet with a psychologist with whom she had met before. Then Diane complicated the case by informing Dr. Quill that she be able to control the time of her death, avoiding the loss of dignity and discomfort which would precede her death. Dr. Quinn informed her of the Hemlock Society, and shortly afterwards, Diane called Dr. Quinn with a request for barbiturates, complaining of insomnia. Dr. Quinn gave her the prescription and informed her how to use them to sleep, and the amount necessary to commit suicide. Diane called all of her friends to say goodbye, including Dr. Quinn, and took her life two days after they met.
Domestic Violence is a widely recognized issue here in the United States. Though many people are familiar with domestic violence, there are still many facts that people do not understand. Abuse is not just physical, it is mental, emotional, verbal, sexual and financial. Many victims of physical abuse are also fall victim to these abuse tactics as well. An abusive partner often uses verbal, mental, emotional, and financial abuse to break their partner so to speak. It is through this type of abuse the victim often feels as though they are not adequately meeting their partner’s needs.
Oklahoma is a host to many wonderful programs that assist domestic violence victims. The Oklahoma Office of the Attorney General, E. Scott Pruitt, currently provides, Oklahoma Safeline, a toll-free, 24 –hour, hotline regarding information about domestic violence, sexual assault, and stalking. This program offers a safe and private opportunity to better a horrible situation where victims feel as if there is no hope. The Oklahoma Office of the Attorney General delivers referrals to crisis centers, shelters, and much more (http://www.oag.state.ok.us/oagweb.nsf/safeline.html). An additional 24-hour hotline is, The National Domestic Violence HOTLINE. It is also private assistance manned by trained advocates for anyone suffering from domestic violence, stalking, or, sexual assault (http://www.thehotline.org/). They provide assistance anywhere within the United States, and the amazing part is, you do not have to be an American citizen. None of these programs falls short when helping people with their basic needs no matter who needs assistance.
Andrea Yates’ life started out completely normal. She graduated number one in her high school class, became a registered nurse for the Anderson Cancer Center in Houston, and met the love of her life and got married. Her life sounds as normal as anyone’s does. Four months after she gave birth to her fourth child, something changed. She tried her first suicide attempt by swallowing 40-50 sleeping pills. She was hospitalized to a psychiatric facility and diagnosed with major depressive disorder. Her doctor’s attempt to medicate her was unsuccessful. She was discharged due to insurance restrictions and according to Charles Patrick Ewing, a forensic psychologist and attorney who wrote the book Insanity, Murder, Madness, and the Law “her family contracted to keep a close eye on the patient.” Several months following her hospitalization, her mental health declined. She lost 13 pounds, had no energy, slept all day, and had memory and conce...
Develop a support system to help enforce the restraining order. Ask your neighbors to help you keep an eye out for the abuser. Stay with friends until your life stabilizes if you can. Most important, seek therapy. A therapist can be your church pastor, a social worker, or a marriage and family counselor. Find a domestic violence support group in your area. It is empowering to know you are not alone, and that others have overcome domestic violence.
Othello is such a character who is portrayed as a tragic hero through his high ranking in army, jealousy caused by racial inferiority, and credulousness for the villain Iago. In Shakespeare’s play, The Moor of Venice, jealousy is the major component constructed though out the entire play and eventually leads to Othello’s downfall and ultimately destroys his marriage with Desdemona.
When she went into surgery in St. John’s Medical Center in St. Louis, we were all there and confidant that everything would go as planned. The doctors came out about one hour into the surgery to inform us that the damage was much worse than they initially thought. They told us that they would keep us updated on her progress. Two hours later they came out to tell us that her heart stopped beating and they tried everything they could to revive her, but she had died.
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Love is a strong affection or warm attachment to someone; on the contrary, pain is a punishment or penalty or suffering of body or mind. These emotions carry a direct relationship; love leads to pain. However, everything that begins must eventually come to an end, and in the end one emotion is victorious. There is a constant struggle between the opposing emotions; henceforth, Ernest Hemingway combines both of these emotions into A Farewell to Arms. Through Fredric Henry and Catherine Barkley’s relationship, Hemingway combines these two emotions in a relentless power struggle. Where love leads, pain shortly follows proving that what comes from love can be dangerous. Ernest Hemingway’s A Farewell to Arms takes place during World War I and describes the relationship between a war doctor, Fredric Henry, and a nurse, Catherine Barkley; the couple follows the cycle of love and pain to prove Hemingway’s point that love is ultimately dangerous.
Abuse has become so common that some people do not realize they are being abused. It is important that this topic is studied because there are many gaps of knowledge to what all an abusive relationship can entail. The goal is to help someone somewhere get out of an abusive relationship before its too late. Whether its emotional or physical abuse, neither is healthy for a person to maintain in. So seeking relationship advice from outside sources, such as popular press articles may be a usual for tool for people who are looking for insight as long as they know to check up on the research involved in the article. This paper will compare and contrast the findings from the article I have chosen to the scholarly research that has been conducted on abusive relationships.
If you are being abused, there are steps you can take to protect yourself. One of those measures is a restraining order for domestic violence. This is a court order that will help protect you from threats of abuse or actual abuse from a person with whom you have a relationship. You can request a restraining order for domestic violence if a person has abused or has threatened abuse against you and you have a relationship with the person abusing you. A relationship may be considered close if it is any of the following:
Domestic violence is a terrible curse to all those involved. It inflicts harm on the victim, the perpetrator and witnesses, whether they be children or not. While support services have long been available to assist women and/or children overcome any issues that arise as a result of domestic violence, these services have left out a significant portion of victims, those that are male. In 2012 The Australian Bureau of Statistics found “That 33.3 per cent of victims of current partner violence during the last 12 months were male” (ABS, 2012) and “37.1 per cent of victims of emotional abuse by a partner during the last 12 months were male” (ABS, 2012). This shows the amount of victims that are being left behind by domestic violence support networks in their current state, despite their good intentions. For such a painful and difficult time it is not adequate to leave one third of those suffering behind.
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The story of Kira begins when a little old lady found a young toddler sleeping near the largest dragons in the world. This little old lady’s name was Julie. Julie was very short, you could say she was a dwarf but the dwarf race had been wiped out by then. She had long grey hair which was in a braid and she wore clothing that looked as though it had been through two wars or more. Julie was walking with a staff for she was a wizard. Julie went near the dragons to take little Kira because she thought that the dragons would hurt her so Julie slowly eased over to grab the child but she became frozen with fear. One of the dragons smelt her, steadily opened his eyes only to notice that a stranger entered their cave. He tried to give her a warning by lashing his tail towards her but Julie didn’t budge whatsoever. Julie realized that she had to get out of there as soon as she could but she felt too frightened to move. Her heart was pounding, she started to sweat and her staff fell to the ground. As the staff was falling to the ground, a light shot out of it hitting the dragon’s wing. The mighty dragon stood up, his wings opened with such majesty and as he was about to breathe fire on Julie she grabbed her staff and made a run for it. The little toddler, Kira was awakened by the ruckus so the other dragon that Kira was sleeping on picked her up and went further into the cave. Julie ran and ran until she fell into lake. She held her breath for the dragon was following her. He tried to track her scent but it just disappeared, he flew back into the cave to make sure his family was safe and the wizard didn’t get to Kira. His partner was very confused. She looked at him startled for no one had ever tried to take Kira away from them. The two dr...
In some cases, people feel they cannot leave their abuser because of fear of what their partner will do. Abusers need to have control over their relationship and their partner. If an