The Followers
Average is Conformity
Colin Wilson once said, "The Average man is a conformist, accepting miseries and disasters with the stoicism of a cow standing in the rain." A conformist is a person who conforms to accepted behavior or established practices. That means someone who follows others, whether it is about decision making or their attitude. In today 's society I would say that most of the people are conformist, this includes both teenagers and adults. Being a conformist in my opinion can be bad and good for various reasons. If the attitude of the specific person has changed for the better, such as a snobby boy/girl becoming more respectful, that it definitely a positive change. Other people can change their attitude for
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Bullying is to use superior strength or influence to intimidate someone, typically to force him or her to do what one wants. This happens in schools all around the country, whether it is in elementary school or in high school. I have seen bullying happen numerous times to innocent people because of the people they are hanging around. Bullying includes cyber bullying, which happens online; along with bullying that happens face to face. Typically it is not just one person that bullies, it is a group of people that pick on the one person. Most of the time, the people that follow the bully around, just do it because they rather be the "bully", then be the one being bullied. A bully has a way of talking people into joining their group. The ones that hang out with bullies normally will say things just to fit in, they are the conformist. Whether it is the bully or the followers, their attitude reflects them as a person. And when other people see that they think it is the right thing to do, because even though it is wrong their personality comes off as strong. Because honestly anyone would say that it is much easier to be mean to someone than it is to take rude compliments. I would say that bullying whether it is cyber bullying or bullying in general, is a act of conformity, because the only reason that it is a continuous thing is because other people follow the leader. Statistics show that the percentage of bullies, is continuing to grow. I think that this is happening because more and more groups are forming, and the groups have the wrong
Conformity is defined as the occurrence of people yielding to social pressures as a result of pressure from a group of their peers; when faced by the pressure to conform, people will alter their behaviour and actions to fit the norm demonstrated by their peers (Lilienfield et al., 2012). Conformity is studied so that is can be understood and used in society to facilitate positive outcomes, and help avoid situations where peoples’ predisposition to conform leads to negative consequences (Lilienfield et al., 2012). By understanding conformity and other social processes society as a whole is able to understand themselves better and motivates them to work on improving as a whole (Lilienfield et al., 2012).
Before we can effectively identify and understand trends in bullying, we must first understand what bullying is. The most common definition of bullying is intentionally and habitually causing physical or emotional harm or pain to others. There is one major flaw with this definition. Pain is subjective, therefore the pain, or its magnitude cannot directly be seen, nor can it be felt by anyone other than the person experiencing it. Therefore, simply defining bullying as "causing pain" leaves to individual interpretation what does or does not constitute bullying. Perhaps a better definition would be any act, physical, verbal, or otherwise that a person perceives to be a threat to his or her physical, emotional or psychological well-being. This definition does not go without flaw either. It is admittedly a rather broad definition and could likely result in the term "bullying" being used rather loosely, however, in order to accurately define what does and does not constitute bullying, we must judge eac...
Conformity is a type of social influence in which individuals change their behaviour to adapt to social norms. There are two types of conformity. One is private conformity, you think that the behaviours of the group are correct so you adapt to the norm. In public conformity, you think that the behaviours of the group are not correct but you feel social pressure. You only conform when you are involved in a group.
Bullying is defined as use superior strength or influence to intimidate (someone), typically to force him or her to do what one wants. This is portrayed in books movies and our everyday life. Bullying in the turn of the century has taken on a new light. This new way to bully is through the internet social media and email. Who bullies more boys or girl? More and more schools are trying to handle bullying traditionally and cyberbullying. We are finding that bullying is leading to more victims killing themselves and more bullies’ being held accountable.
In Shakespeare's Much Ado About Nothing, Beatrice and Benedict rant about marriage for most of the beginning of the play, while Claudio raves about how wonderful it will be being married to Hero. Yet in the end, Claudio exchanges his marriage to Hero for an opportunity to bash her in public, while Beatrice and Benedick marry despite that they were mortal enemies for most of the first three acts. How did the situation swing around to this degree? Beatrice and Benedick had been using the most extreme metaphors to demonstrate their scorn of each other and of marriage, and Claudio had been doing the same to demonstrate his love of Hero. Not only did none of these three characters mean what they were saying, but meant the reverse, and the people that plotted to bring them together or pull them apart plotted because they understood on some level what each really wanted.
The people who are conformist usually look at non conformist as weird. I believe that the conformists are the weird people because they all want to be the same so they don't get judged. Well, enough talking about conformists the non conformists are the people to talk about. They usually do not care about what the other people say they just appreciate this world by just being themselves because they know that they are not going to be on this world forever. So when they past they did not leave anything behind so they lived in this world, not caring about what anybody said so they lived being happy and themselves.
In every society, there is conformity and nonconformity, although we may not notice it. Conformity is when someone is doing the same thing as others because they do not want to be the only one doing differently. Example, if there was a whole class raising their hands would you want to be the only one with your hand down, no so you would raise it with the rest of the class to not look like you don't know anything. This is called social pressures it when a large group is doing something and you're the only one not then you want to be doing whatever that large group is doing.
Conformity is a person’s belief or behavior that is influenced by their environment. Rebellion is the act of refusing to listen or follow authority. There are several costs and benefits of conformity and rebellion. The assigned readings points out many of these examples. However living a life as a conformist, rather than a rebellion would be a good decision and a safe one.
Bullying by definition is a form of aggressive behavior in which someone intentionally and repeatedly causes another person injury or discomfort. Bullying can take the form of physical contact, words or more subtle actions. [Why] Bullying has grown new outlets over the last decade. With social media outlets and text messaging added to the game, bullying is not just about getting tormented face to face anymore. Cyber bullying can include sending out mean or threatening emails and instant messages about a person, spreading rumors about someone and also include photos that a person would consider to be humiliating. [Chamberlin] Bullying can have many outlets. The most common form of bullying is still face to face confrontation. But the other outlets, such as cyber bullying are definitely not something to take lightly or consider low on a scale of importance. Sexual harassment, racial differences, not being “cool enough”, or just simply being viewed as a weaker individual may attribute to many of the reasons a person is preyed on.
Bullying does not have a standard definition. Bullying can be anything from calling someone else names, beating them up just for the fun of it, to texting or messaging them on the internet or any mobile device. Any person can be the victim of bullying, not just children. Bullying causes many issues, physically, emotionally, and mentally, not only for the victim, but for their entire families as well. Bullies have many different reasons as to why they start bullying someone else. The actions done to the victim leaves them with only a few options on how to stop being bullied. How they handle it is always different.
Bullying is defined as the use of force, threat, or coercion to abuse, intimidate, or aggressively to impose domination over others and is often repeated and habitual. Bullying is something that can manifest in all kinds of places whether it be at home, school, or in the community. There are different ways that bullying can manifest at home. For example, we often hear of fathers trying to “toughen up” their sons up and make them into a man, when in reality, they are bullying their children to make them tough. Parents often allow their sons to be aggressive and rough and find it appropriate for them to physically hurt other people. They often say “boys will be boys” as if that behavior is normal and okay. Well, it is not normal or appropriate behavior, that kind of behavior is only teaching them to be aggressive in society and to bully other people. This type ...
Have you ever been personally bullied by another person? Maybe you have not had your head forced into a locker, but verbally hurt? Bullying today can be quite serious. Bullying is when someone tries to hurt another person by hitting them or by simply hurting them with their words. Bullying is something that can have a huge impact on its victims. It might be something that lasts throughout their lives, or something that might cause them to take their lives. Bullies make small groups so that they can pick on other students who are small, fragile, and who can not defend themselves. Picking on someone should not be accepted because it can affect a person's well being in a drastic way. Bullying is believed to be a normal part of school life. However, when people begin to have that mentality they forget that bullying is psychologically and physically harmful to both the victim and the bully.
Individuality vs. Conformity: School uniform policy or not at De La Salle University? De La Salle University (DLSU), a private and prestigious university in the Philippines, does not require students to wear uniforms. Sutton (1975) defined clothing as “a reflection of man’s mores and values, a measure of his inventive and decorative impulse, and an illustration of his culture and of his response to the pressures of his society” (p. vii).It implies that each individual is granted the natural freedom to express one's own self by selecting which to wear. Philippines is a country that “guarantees the freedom of religion and the right to freedom of expression”, and, “It is also a State Party to the core human rights treaties that touch on the question of religious practices, including clothing”(Republika Ng Pilipinas, 2013, p. 1).However,there seem to be issues related to the behaviors of studentsin terms of habitual disregard to minor policiesthat are still ongoing in DLSU such asdress code violation and disrespectful acts in class. Furthermore, there is another issue concerning It is the time to discuss if it is beneficial to modify the DLSU dress code into a school uniform policy.
We all know what it is, and we know it’s not a good thing. Bullying has been around for ages, and has gotten worse as time has progressed. With all the technology the world has today, bullying is not only occurring at school and work, but online as well. Most individuals try to ignore a bully, but sometimes ignoring it makes the situation even worse. Bullying is a serious subject that needs to be looked at more. Individuals are being affected by bullying in a negative way, causing a lowering of self-esteem, depression and sometimes even suicide.
Many people would voice that bullying is, in fact wrong. Calling someone out of their name, and abusing them physically, doesn’t actually improve yourself. It does make the bully feel wonderful for a short amount of time, hurting someone else ' 'helps them deal ' ' with what 's going on in their own lives. Since we now have the Internet, more and more people are getting bullied even after school. Cyberbullying includes things as: inappropriate pictures, and posting nasty things about people. The major effect of bullying, is after the bully has gained ego points, the victim is left changed. Cyberbullying is the start of a new type of bullying.