Comparing The Relationship Between 'Delta And' Hot

Is it healthy to base our relationships on food? We put a lot of trust and have high expectations on thinking that food can be our bridge to a relationship that will be strong and long lasting. Although food is a common link between people since everybody needs it to survive it is such a common thing no one asks about it versus what your favorite movie is. I am going to be comparing my relationship with my ex Delta with Illa and Sajaan from the Lunchbox and the friends from the poem Hot. My paper argues that you do not need food to use as a crutch to have a strong relationship. In my relationship with my ex Delta was an accident like Illa and Sajaan’s. Except our relationship was not based on food. We used food to catch up and talk about

Sajaan and Illa’s relationship is based on an accident that involved food. Without the food, they would not have a relationship, Illa was the empty lunchbox and Sajaan was the food. Without either one the relationship would end. Their conversations were about how the food tasted and then became more intimate but the lack of meeting each other in person made the relationship not work out. The only thing Sajaan and Illa had in common was food but in various aspects and having problems with their life but at distinct stages. Sajaan and Illa liked different dishes, Illa loved cooking different foods while Sajaan loved eating her food but had his favorite dish. Illa and Sajaan did not share the same passion for food, and did not share the love for liking the same

We as human beings have much more to offer to each other with relationships then to have it be based on something so simple as what foods you eat. Although, a human’s mind works in unusual ways. If you are lonely and someone else feels the same you latch onto thinking you have found someone or something to make you feel whole. It is like Illa and Sajjan, although the lunchbox being sent to the wrong place was a mistake, Illa needed someone to talk to that is going thorough something similar. Our minds can trick us into thinking may things. Maybe when we are picking out friends, the relationships that will not work out more specifically, that our minds trick us into thinking that the relationships for instant based on food will work out. Since as humans we learn and adapt to mistakes our brain wants us to experience these types of relationships that will not work out but we make ourselves believe they