Meant to be or not
The couples that are meant to be are the ones who go through everything that is meant to tear them apart and come out even stronger than they were before. On the other hand couples that are not meant to be fight and end up by breaking up or divorce. A couple should work like two partners in crime, despite fights and arguments settles disputes without hurting one another physically or emotionally. A couple that is meant to be does not hurt each other 's feelings. A couple that shares not only bed but household work. The partners that are meant to be should be like best friends who never share food but back each other up, get in trouble together and never tear apart, laugh and share moments of joy. One should be very careful when choosing a partner because falling in love is easy, but staying in love is a challenge, letting go is hard, and moving on is the hardest. A couple that is meant to be is ideal, honest to each other and supportive for both household works and professional life.
Relationships are like buildings it cannot stand on a pillar called love. An ideal relationship requires a lot more than love. Most husbands claim to love their wives but when it comes to work they take easiest tasks and leave entire household work for their wives whereas, an ideal husband never
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Despite every luxury, comfort and love a relationship cannot survive without honesty. One is never forced into stay in a relationship. It depends on one 's own decisions whether not to stay in relationship. Instead of lying or cheating one should always be truthful and honest. Hurting someone a little with truth is always better than hurting with lies. One should be emotionally honest with ourselves and one another"Building a Magical Relationship" (Collins 6). Sometimes it is important to hide certain things if one have a perfect reason for hiding and hiding is not lying. Relationships require commitment and dedication in order to be
Marriage is something most people do but few do it well. If a couple is not looking at divorce papers that are probably seeking marriage counseling. If they are not screaming to the top of their lungs at each other they are probably sneaking out to lie in someone else’s arms. If they are not physically abusing one or the other they are probably being mentally abusive. If a couple is not saying hurtful things to each other they are probably not saying anything at all because why would they when the other is not going to listen anyways. We have all been in or seen relationships struggle with these kinds of things. This big question is where did they go wrong? I think the answer to that question lies in Matt Chandler’s book The Mingling of Souls. Chandler’s answer to the question above is that if a couple wants to have a truly successful marriage they must follow God’s design for marriage. Now Chandler is in no way implying that a couple will not struggle if they do it God’s way but they will be able to get through those struggles together. This review is not a summary of the book but it will discuss the strength and weaknesses of
It takes time and dedication to build a strong relationship. By overcoming obstacles and sticking together through hard times relationships grow stronger until both people truly love each other. Some people say they love someone, but do they really? Can you really love someone after only knowing them for a day? John Steinbeck’s Of Mice and Men is about two men, George and Lennie, who have grown up together and work as a pair to earn money so they can buy their own land. Lennie is extremely strong, and George is incredibly smart. When Lennie gets caught in a dangerous situation with their bosses wife, George does what is best for Lennie to prevent him from
Telling the truth can have some consequences, but a lie can cause more damage in a relationship once it has been figured out. People believe that by just lying, a problem is solved, but problems start when lies are told. Lying destroys relationships and truth builds honest relationships which, can last forever. In both F. Scott Fitzgerald’s The Great Gatsby and Rob Marshall’s Chicago, characters lie because they feel that it is easier. However, lying leads to a downward- spiral. The society we live in can either lead us to a complicated relationship with the truth or easygoing. The problem with constantly telling lies is that it starts off with one, then leads to another until everything you say is a lie. Being truthful
Whether we like to admit it or not, keeping secrets that should be let out into the light are lies that can damage relationships. Actions like these will likely cause a lack of trust in relationships, which exemplifies why lying is always harmful to any relationship. According to Daily Mail, men lie about six times a day, while women lie three times a day. Out of these numbers, it is certain one will recognize at least a single lie. Studies have shown that when one lies, the brain has to remember everything that it said. Taxing the brain causes trauma, such as stress. Law enforcement investigators are trained to ask the liar to repeat the scenario or lie backwards to see if they are actually telling the truth. Moreover, lying is just
Plato once said: “Honesty is for the most part less profitable than dishonesty.” People are taught from a very young age never to lie or keep secrets. It would be easy for anyone to stand behind the argument: “Honesty is the best policy,” but in times of personal anguish, that decree is quickly disdained. What this argument fails to consider is that keeping a secret or lying is the justifiable in times of crisis.
Then, people in relationship should have communication, willing to work through the inevitable differences, and aware of their partners own live-time goals. After reading chapter 6 Relationships: Mindsets in Love (Or Not) in Mindset, I found Dweck has a really good point, she writes, “A no effort relationship is a doomed relationship, not a great relationship. It takes work to communicate accurately and it takes work to expose and resolve conflicting hopes and beliefs.” It does not really dangerous that a relationship have a serious problem, as long as people are pleased to discuss and put themselves in each other’s shoes, their relationship is going to grow and
Honesty is a huge part of everyday life, and carries a lot of burden in
First of all, in the play “Midsummer Night’s Dream” by William Shakespeare, Lysander says “The course of true love never did run smooth” which means love can be hard and strenuous work. Love does not always work out and sometimes it does. When it does work out though, it can be very hard. You have to share the things you have and try not to make each other mad. When you’re living together that’s pretty hard because your spouse...
To summarize, honesty is not the best policy. Lying is necessary, for a morally just or unjust reason. The truth sometimes blocks a someone from reaching their desires. If only the truth is told, it can be used against the everyone. If everyone was completely honest society could not function properly. Someone who can deceive will always find people who allow themselves to be fooled.
Honesty is the best policy. It is a virtue that we all must aim for to have a peaceful and serene life. It is a foundation to a healthy relationship dealing with the people in our lives, whether they are our parents, friends or brothers and sisters. There isn’t a healthy relationship without trust and that is how you gain honesty. Being honest avoids trouble and makes your life easier instead of worrying about things that you have lied about and implying stress on yourself.
Aside from the science behind love, a relationship cannot subsist upon affection alone. While a sense of endearment is helpful, it is not the most important part of a successful relationship. A couple must learn to communicate effectively in order to move forward in their relationship, a couple must also have a personal compatibility and be able to complement each other well. A couple must also be flexible with each other and be able to resolve conflict well, in order to have a workable relationship. Unfortunately, very few couples realize the amount of effort that must be put into a relationship and enter into things blindly. Many could argue that this is why, on average, a marriage in the US only lasts about 8.8 years and American marriages have a divorce rate of over 40 percent.
I once believed that lying was the only way out of hurting another person but after lying on many occasions not to get caught got me nowhere. I would lie on numerous times to my boyfriend that when the relationship got serious and committed he couldn’t help but throw my past lies in my face, especially during an argument. So after 2 years I have learned to always be honest regardless of the outcome. And so far it has worked to my favor.
We live our lives waiting for who we think is the perfect person, but in reality that never happens. When we hear the word relationship, we think of a man and a woman. Being in a relationship is more than just being intimate. There are different kinds of relationship such as husbands and wives, parent and child, or just friend to friend. Some people say it takes two people to make a relationship fail. When two people meet, they usually know from the begining if they want to be with that person or if they want to pursue a relationship.
“Relationships are what make up our world today, they shape the ways we see things and the way that we do things, relationships affect how we see the world today”. I believe supporting what your partner does, having a great sum of trust and showing your affections towards your partner is what will make a healthy relationship great.
I do not know of anyone who wants to be known as Pinocchio, the wooden boy who lies and in a result, makes his nose grow bigger. As an old proverb says, honesty is the best policy. I agree with being honest at all times. First, telling the truth to me, is always the right thing. When I catch someone in a lie, I just think to myself, what has come up of this world? A person’s truths and lies prove who that person is, and what that person is capable of. Second, people can earn a great deal of respect and trust from telling the truth. Now, people trust their “gut feeling”, but someone’s “gut feeling” should always be truthful. Respect is something that is earned, and at sometimes, given to people who do the things that they are supposed to do for themselves and for others. Last, most people were taught to tell the truth at a very young age. A truth is