Mothers: The Way Parents Take Care Of Their Children

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Have you ever gotten mad because of your parents or were you about to leave home because of them? However, Parents see things in different ways not as well as other people. Parents always have many differences in the way they treat, educate and pay attention to their children.

First of all, mothers have different ways of taking care of children. Mothers always treat their children in kind way which means they let the final decision to their hearts in judging punishing and many things they have with children. In addition, moms treat children with emotions and beautiful way. For example, my mother used to say nice things to me when I fail, and even when I do wrong things; she always punishes me with love, even if she wants to hit me; she …show more content…

Fathers always treat their children in rock way which means they always make decisions in most of their problems with. However, my father treats me logically and rock way. Like, my dad used always to punish me when ever I do something, even when I do something good he acts like I did nothing. I have many friends with a similar situation; they always get no support from their fathers and they even think that their fathers don’t love them or don’t care, but actually its their way in treating children. To add, fathers educate children in hard way and they push them extremely to be good in school even if they don’t like their ways. Fathers always care about the results even if the way isn’t kind. For instance, my father used always to push me extremely and even when I got in my high school almost 100% he told me that wasn’t good and I could do better. Even when I lost my car and wasn’t my mistake; he put the blame on me, and he acted like he doesn’t care but I know he does. Moreover, Fathers do not always pay attention to their children not as well as mothers; maybe because they always busy or they are tired from working the whole day. As, my father doesn’t always pay attention and whenever I have a problem; I don’t tell him epically stupid problems, but I know that whenever I have bad situations; he will always be by my side. We can catch on the movies that rarely children release their secrets to their fathers except in a few situations. Keep in mind, that whenever you get in a real trouble; no one will take care of your trouble like your

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