communication is key

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Communication is Key
Hills Like White Elephants by Ernest Hemingway is a short story about a couple contemplating on whether or not to have an abortion. The two are at a train station drinking beer and waiting for their train to come. In the story, the man wants the girl to get an abortion saying it will be an easy and quick procedure. However, the readers can tell that the girl is not too fond of the idea of getting an abortion. Throughout the story the couple tries to talk about the problem but their conversation seems to go nowhere. They go back and forth saying that they just want the other one to be happy. There is an irony in the story of these two characters as their relationship begins to “deteriorate,” compared to the “unity portrayed in the river, mountains, and fields” (Maynard). The woman begins to see the “selfishness of the man” and that is when the readers see that she has made up her mind to keep the child” (Maynard). Even though the readers have a good understanding of what each character wants, neither of them come out and say what they have decided. Once their train arrives the two part ways. No clear decision was ever made but the readers have a good idea that the couple most likely separated and the girl probably kept her baby. Hemingway stresses how important communication is in relationships through this story. The couple in the story obviously did not communicate very well, therefore, their relationship did not last. Relationships are built on communication and if a couple cannot communicate then the relationship will not last. Hemingway portrayed a couple who failed at communicating through three different ways. Location, time, and degree of relationship are all factors that affect communica...

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...ough location, time, and the degree of relationship. The readers get an understanding of how important it is to have an effective conversation. A private conversation should take place in a private setting. A conversation should not be over until the issue is resolved, no matter how long it takes. The couple should allow the appropriate amount of time for the conversation to take place. Also, if a strong relationship is desired then communication is vital and if the communication is weak the relationship deteriorate. If communication is not dealt with in an appropriate manner then the relationship will not last. In this story the significance of conversation is overlooked which is exactly why the relationship deteriorated. Hemingway shows the readers just how important communication is between two people. For a prosperous relationship, communication is key.

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