as someone ever held the door, provided assistance in picking up dropped objects, or just thrown a compliment out of the blue? These are just a few examples of unnoticed, but thoughtful, actions. The ancient Greek storyteller Aesop stated, “No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.” This quote is stating there is worth in a tiny, charitable action. Something minor can have a surprisingly large impact. With that, being nice can create friendships, it can cheer up, and it can be an inspiration. With this in mind, recall how a first friendship came to be. It probably wasn’t by being hostile. Even if the friendship started out rough, there was probably some sympathy that made a friendship. I know that when I started middle school, I barely had friends; however, when unfamiliar faces were friendly to me (or me to them), it confirmed to me that I was making some new companions as a result. Cracking a joke with others and trying to be friendly helped me know what type of person they were, and if they were sociable. This helped confirm friendship or not. In relation, being kind helps …show more content…
However, when people were welcoming to me, it cheered me up and I made friends along the way. I had received a compliment from a new friend which became a highlight of my week, which shows the impact of benevolence. Somebody might do something nice for whoever else, and that person could be cheered up from a difficult circumstance and all they needed was to feel cared about and they did as a result of the thoughtful act. Uniquely, I was once able to make a cashier’s day after she decided to pay for my item. I told my mother what had happened and we decided to buy her a latte. When I brought it to the woman, she told me I had just made her day, and it was only six in the morning! Equally, this woman had made my day. This memory cheers me up as it reminds me of kind people I
In a short story called, “Thank you ma’am”, the author is trying to convey the theme, or message, of the importance of showing random acts of kindness towards others to help institute change. Mrs.J show one act of kindness when she washes his face. Another when she makes Roger food at her house. Mrs.J is kind and shows multiple examples throughout the story.
One day, when I was a freshman in high school, I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school. His name was Kyle. It looked like he was carrying all of his books. I thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday? He must really be a nerd." I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on. As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him. They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt. His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him. He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes. My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him and as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye. As I handed him his glasses, I said, "Those guys are jerks. They really should get a life." He looked at me and said, "Hey thanks!" There was a big smile on his face. It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude. I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived. As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before. He said he had gone to private school before now. I would have never hung out with a private school kid before. We talked all the way home, and I carried his books. He turned out to be a pretty cool kid. I asked him if he wanted to play football on Saturday with me and my friends. He said yes. We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him. And my friends thought the same of him.
The littlest actions can impact our lives drastically for better or for worse. Throughout our lives we all have experienced something that has inspired us. These experiences go from small gestures made by kind strangers all the way to global catastrophes. These experiences influence us to do everything we do on a day to day basis.
Contributing to prosocial behavior is something that everyone should make an effort at doing especially given that the United States has such an individualist culture. In all five of the situations, I learned that the smallest things like a compliment can make someone’s day which I think is mentally beneficial on both ends. I enjoyed giving out positive energy and I even made friends out of my behaviors. It was very self-rewarding knowing that I made a difference in someone’s day.
Kindness can really make a difference in a person's attitude. In “A Christmas Carol”, the Cratchits and Scrooge's nephew Fred show kindness to Scrooge, even though Scrooge showed quite the opposite to them. Or in “Thank you M’am”, when Ms. Jones makes Roger food and gives him money to buy his shoes, instead of reporting him to the police. Even in “Little Things Are Big”, when Jesus decides to help people even if he has to face prejudism. These stories all show turning points, and these examples show
I had just gotten off a plane to visit my grandmother in Florida and an elderly woman had been a passenger on the same plane. In this specific airport, there are small subway trains that take the passengers to the baggage area. All seats had been filled by the time this woman made it to the subway train. She looked around and found that no seats were available, but a young man behind her stood up and offered his seat to her. She gave the young man a big smile and thanked him for such a nice act of kindness. The fact that he was willing to stand so this woman could sit down was very polite and not only made the woman happy, but I had a smile on my face,
“Sometimes it 's easy to walk by because we know we can 't change someone 's whole life in a single afternoon. But what we fail to realize it that simple kindness can go a long way toward encouraging someone who is stuck in a desolate place.” ~ Mike Yankoski
She doesn’t know this, but she changed my life. She was there for me when it seemed like no one else was. When most of my friends were dissolving around me and I just didn’t feel like I could do anything right, she was there, and she made everything seem okay. It didn’t matter that I was inevitably going to graduate with a GPA a tenth of a point lower than I wanted, or that my director told me that he was disappointed in me because I just didn’t seem focused lately, or that my other friends just weren’t talking to me anymore. It didn’t matter because she was there and she made me feel safe. She’s my best friend, and I love her and admire her for so many different reasons.
...esult, the more directly one sees their personal efforts impact someone else, the more happiness one can gain from the experience of giving. Sometimes generosity requires pushing past a feeling of reluctance because people all instinctively want to keep good things for themselves, but once one is over this feeling, they will feel satisfaction in knowing that they have made a difference in someone else’s life. However, if one lives without generosity but is not selfish, they can still have pleasure from other virtues.
For instance, it was an extremely sunny day in Ghana, West Africa, and I had gone out to the well to fetch water. It was while carrying the bucket of water on my way back that I noticed my neighbor’s children fighting over the insufficient amount of food that they had to share. My family and I were not rich but from what I saw, I knew that we were better off than other people I knew. I carried the bucket of water inside the house and came back outside to call the two youngest children that were fighting over the last grain of food. I shared my food my food with them and though it was not sufficient for all, feeding the younger ones alone was better than not helping any one of them at all. There was only little that I could possibly do but by sharing, I had helped them in a great way, even if it was just for the time being.
A good friend must be kind because being kind is when they look out for you no matter what! If they hear girls talking about you, they are the friends that stop them. Friends look out for you even when you are arguing. A friend understands that you may not always get along but you should always try and be there for them and look out for them. Although this can be difficult at times, it proves how kind and loving you are. Another part of being kind is listening to one and another. Sometimes we don't care about what are friends have to say, but listening is really important. Listening shows that you value their friendship. Some friends only talk about themselves and never listen to your problems; that is not a good friend. Listening to each other helps you learn about the person as it shows character and tells that person you can count on them. In addition, being a ...
...Lindsey. “The Rippling Effects of Random Acts of Kindness: Giving, Growing, and Gaining. ”Just another we blog. Sites.psu.edu., n.d. Web. 16 October. 2013.
Friendship is a relationship that all the individuals can create by themselves. Though it is not a god gifted relationship like that of the relationship of a mother, father, sister, brother or any of the other family but still it is one of the best relations an individual can possess. People who have true friends consider themselves as the luckiest individuals on earth.
One reason that any act of kindness makes an impact is that some people need positivity. First off, one act of kindness could change the receiver’s life forever. There are many people in the world that struggle everyday, and motivation and kind acts can contribute to helping them throughout their life. Also, the receiver will have a positive mindset