Change Is Hard At First, Messy In The Sorority

“Change is hard at first, messy in the middle and gorgeous at the end” a quote from Robin Sharma. For some people, change isn’t easy. They usually see as too much for them. What they don’t know is that change is good. Change can be what someone may need in there life, to make it better. In Freedom Writers the girl decided to join a sorority. The girl says that the girls who were in the sorority were a white elite rich girls. The writer describes how mistreated she was so she was able to become popular. For example when she was a freshman first joining the sorority the boys able to tell them what to do. She went through all of that torture so ending result would be that she will become popular. Now that she’s older and not a freshman she observes

I always felt like if you did what everyone else was doing you would be considered “cool”. Me personally I would always think if you always followed the new trends, like buying the latest shoes, or certain type of clothes, I would think people at school would think I’m cool. I was in middle school when I would think like this. The summer after eighth grade I just stopped and thought why did I always cared about what I was always wearing. I began to see my friend to start following all the trends at school that all the pretty popular girls were wearing. It bugged me a ton that she would always wear what everyone else was wearing so she could be cool. At that moment it hit me. I remembered that I would to that exact same thing in middle school. I thought to myself that it was very stupid of me to think that way. Today I don’t really care about following the trends. I only wear what I want to wear and what I like and not what others are wearing. Now I hate that everyone wears the same thing. To me it’s really boring, it’s now what I consider basic. I feel like if you do things to be someone you’re not you shouldn’t to them. Doing your own thing makes you unique and someone who doesn’t care what anyone else