Challenge of Taking Care Elderly Loved One

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Challenges of Taking Care of Elderly Loved One My mother broke her hip and had to stay at a nursing home temporarily to rehabilitate. I knew then if she had to stay for long term that would not be an option for my mother. Nursing homes are okay if family members are checking on love ones while they are there. Simply stated, I believe they do not have adequate staff to accommodate all the patients in the nursing home. Therefore the challenges of taking care of my mother were her refusal to help, effects to health caretaker, and family conflicts. My mother lived in her home for 50 years. Getting my mother to leave her home and all that was familiar to her was not an easy task. She did not feel like she had to leave because she thought she could take care of herself. Some of the reasons according to Mayo Clinic Staff (n.d.) that elderly love one refuse help is “he or she is likely dealing with loss — physical loss, mental loss, the loss of independence. Accepting care may mean relinquishing privacy and adjusting to new routines” (para 2). However, she could not get around on her own after breaking her hip. She was never rehabilitated at the nursing home, because of her unwillingness to commit to physical therapy. My mother had to return home because she would scream, cry and talk all through the night at the nursing home disturbing the other patients. For example, I remember her roommate’s husband was not pleased with my mother telling his wife, they were going to leave the nursing home. Even though, neither one of them were capable of walking. After bringing her home, I would go to my mother’s home to do the cooking, housework, medical treatment; such as give her medication, dress her wound and personal hygie... ... middle of paper ... ...lderly loved one to get help. Moreover, the most important point is to get an understanding with elderly parents when they are capable of making their own health choices and end of life decisions, and let it be known to all siblings, so that there will be no discrepancy of elderly parents wishes. Subsequently, my mother passed away and I did not have to make (DNR) decision. Works Cited Bursack B. C. (n.d.). What to Do When Siblings Can't Agree on a Parent's Care Needs. Retrieved Retrieved from http://www.agingcare.com/Articles/sibling-disputes-about-elderly-parents-care-134376.htm Mayo Clinic Staff (n.d). Caring for the elderly Dealing with resistance. Retrieved from http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/caring-for-the-elderly/MY01436 Tepper, L. M., & Cassidy, T. M. (2004). Multidisciplinary perspectives on aging. New York: Springer Pub. Co.

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