People who want to become parents need to inform themselves and they should focus on giving a better life to their children. Not everyone has the ability to care for a child correctly and not everyone has the essentials that are needed as food money home and provide love. There are people waiting to have children and give them all the best they can and there are parents who abuse their children. Also having a child is a natural part of every human’s life but this doesn't mean all people have the capacity
Remember that child shouldn 't feel guilty for wanting to see the other parent, so let them enjoy those visits as best as they can. Parenting may be hard to give explain for the child to understand why this child has a single parent. It could be a Death or Divorce or Left family? Not many children to understand why this parent left the child for: new partner, don’t have jobs to raise a child, or other don’t care about children. However, both parents who were together before one either decided to leave as a single parent is a hard thing to do, because its show that one other doesn’t care about is part of life with a child.
369). Relationships are another thing that everyone needs, especially children. Children need a real strong relationship between themselves and their parents, but children from single parent families are usually denied this privilege because they are separated from one of their parents and often do not get to spend adequate time with the other. Children who have a strong relationship with their parents are more likely to respect the authority of their parents ( Curtin et al. 370).
Children that grow up without their parents Parents should make their children their first priority, give them attention, love, and learn to communicate with them. If children were to be given more emotional support they would have high self-esteem, and be more productive in life. When there are absent parents’ children usually are effect emotionally, physically and even mentally. Single parents sometimes tend to pay more attention to work or other things than their children. That can cause children to believe that they are not wanted nor loved.
Parental friendships will surely help build a solid base for future relationships. At some point during a child’s development, the parenting role must turn into friendship. Many people feel that there should be a thick line between parents and children but I strictly disagree. Being friends with your children can come in handy because it is also a type of supervision, which helps parents see if they are walking in the right direction. As soon as they ensure their children are safe, they will be able to manage these aspects of their lives by themselves.
The way that parents raise their children is much contrasted to the way that dictators would like to treat them. In order for children to be self-reliant and self-sufficient, they have to know that not everything is going to be chewed up and handed in a platter for them to freely take. Remember that if you ever need a helping hand, you'll find one at the end of your arm.
A child is heavily impacted by the single parent he/she was raised by. Whether it is negative or positive, it is the parent’s responsibility. Gymnast Louis Smith, Barack Obama, SarahJane Funnell, Bradley Wiggins, Paloma Faith, to name a few, were brought up by single parents and they have all become successful in a way. We know there are more troubled children in single-parent households, but single-parenting as a whole should not entirely be looked at negatively. Although it may be difficult to get through the hardships especially for young children growing up, it is the parent’s ultimate job to ensure that their child is getting the healthy and happy lifestyle they need to take on the various factors that come along with single-parenting.
To enrich the well-being of a child, the person must be prepared for. LaRossa, Ralph states that “Children who do not have fathers as male role models suffer especially”. It is crucial for a child to be around its loved one .They must learn the lessons that they need to become well-educated persons. To conclude, I do not agree with what the author is trying to convey. I grew up without my father around.
Some people say that “No one should be pushed, some kids are pushed so much that they don’t want to keep on going at all. They undergo too much stress and it makes school harder for them. Some parents push too hard and make kids feel like their parents don’t love them or want them around.” Others say “How will they ever become something without giving up on it. I mean think about it when you’re pushing me they go for the gold, but when you don 't push them, let them go on there own then they will just fail and become nothing in life, and not having the courage to really achieve anything in life and go for it.” (Are Adults Hurting Young Children by Pushing Them to Achieve?) I agree with both of these statements.
As long as both parents have an understanding that their family comes first and that it is important to communicate between themselves and with the children, a step-family could survive. Children who are raised with both a mother and a father have more attention from both parents therefore they get the emotional time they need to progress in life. This could be true but not in all circumstances. It would not be beneficial at all to grow up in a two parent family who did nothing but argue and put each-other down. Naturally, a child who sees this from a very young age until they are ready to be out on their own