Some may show trust and even sit and listen to relationship problems, but sometimes they just want to be nosy. One thing is, once they hear what they have been waiting to hear, and then they are history, and basically that friend who was pretending to be an honest friend. This epiphany changed my life for the better. Everyone will experience an epiphany, whether it is positive or negative, the main thing is, try to overcome it. In the beginning, once I found that one friend I thought would always be there and never turn his back on me, had been my best friend since head start, but then took me for granted and did not even acknowledge my existence anymore.
Now, everyone always says that you should always listen to your parents but that is not always the case. While your parents may be older and have more experience they still do not know everything. But don’t get me wrong, you should obey your parents when they have your best interest in mind and are genuinely trying to help you through life. But, sometimes, kids especially know this to be true, your parents just don’t understand. Which I find funny because they are always saying I was a kid once too but then they just seem to forget what it feel like because they are too busy being a parent.
You know when you watch some people speak about themselves so naturally and genuinely, and wonder “Were they born like that?”. I did. So I asked these people, what was their secret. Half of them told me that they grew up surrounded by people who talked like that, so it was “only natural” that they started speaking like that. The other half told me they were “painfully shy” or “couldn’t make small talk to save my life” but were determined to learn.
Because we each have a distinctive personality, we perceived life differently. When we became friends, we unconsciously helped one another learn how to handle life that someone may not be the best at. My relationship with my friends was not perfect: Sometimes, we drive each other insane, while other times, we were there for each other. The most important part was what we all learn from those experiences. For me, my friends helped me learn to stand up for myself and not let others manipulate me.
I learnt that for every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction, such as me helping my friends and my friends helping me in return. I discovered that everyone has to talk to someone, even me, or else they’ll do something that would cause pain to themselves and even others. And finally I learnt that even if someone doesn’t follow the advice someone gives them to the ‘T’, they still appreciate it because it shows them that there is someone who still cares for them.
But their are only a few people that you call your best friend. To have a best friend you have to have a few qualities that make a good friendship with one another. Being someone 's friend is nice, but having a best friend is great thing to have, but a hard thing to maintain. There are a lot of qualities to maintain true friendship, but theses three qualities are especially important if you want to maintain a good friendship with your best friend When you talk to people, and ask for their opinion most people are not going to be truly honest with you, because they do not want to hurt your feelings. Many people do want to
In this world sometimes things get worse in life, and friends are the first people to be considered after the family to help out. They are always there for you whenever you’re in need. However, how can we describe friendship? The meaning of friendship is confusing because in every group there are different ways of
People learn from a young age what friendship is or do we. Some people have experienced what a lifelong friend is. However to some friends come and go. As we go through life, it is normal to meet many people, but most of them will never be a friend. Most of the people will only be a casual acquaintance.
We grow in and out of friendships in accordance to our life’s expectancies and changes. Friends briefly touch your heart and some will stay longer than others. Personality and its uniqueness is everything, because no one wants several of the same friendships, all doing the same thing. With the friendships I have obtained, as long as they respect your beliefs, share the same interest in being your friend, and place all their trust in you; there’s a good friendship just waiting to happen.
You might ask what the secret of this profound friendship? There’s one thing we believe it all the time and most of who know us couldn’t understand it. It’s that each one of us accept the other’s flaws, no one of us has tried to change the other as the way she wants it“ A friend is one that knows you as you are, understands where you have been, accepts what you have become, and still, gently allows you to grow.” William