Benefits of Mentoring for Young People

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“Tell me and I forget, teach me and I may remember, involve me and I learn.”

― Benjamin Franklin

“Do not train a child to learn by force or harshness; but direct them to it by what amuses their minds, so that you may be better able to discover with accuracy the peculiar bent of the genius of each.”

― Plato

Youth mentoring is one of the most under-utilized tools in America for the successful development of intelligent and prosperous young men and women. Young people today need multi-dimensional care in order to successfully mature into well rounded individuals. Unfortunately, a majority of youth today are not receiving the attention they need in order to reach their full potential (Boyle 1). Without proper guidance, these youth are practicing in high risk behaviors, such as substance abuse and violence. When faced with difficult situations, it is easy for a young person to make poor choices. A youth mentor provides an extra outlet for these adolescents when a parent, sibling, or friend is not available, or even able to make the best choices for the adolescent. Youth mentoring is needed now more than ever.

The multi-faceted needs of an adolescent are almost more complex than that of an adult. At such a young age teenagers and pre-teens are trying to understand right from wrong, learning how to take care of themselves, discovering who they are and establishing values. It is necessary for youth to have a strong and stable support system while growing up. Traditionally, parents are expected to fill this role. Today, however, that is not always the case.

The divorce rate in the United States is soaring. Accordingly, as the divorce rate increases, so does the number of single parents. When marriages end, and divorce papers are signed, changes have to be made. One larger household is replaced by two smaller households. Instead of one set of bills, there are two. Visitation rights replace family time. Countless adjustments are inevitable. This type of situation brings about confusion, disappointment, and despair in the lives of young people.

With such a high percentage of teen pregnancies, consequently there is an elevated number of young mothers. When a mother is at a young age when she bears a child, it is exceedingly complicated to appropriately take care of the child while at the same time caring for herself. Teenage moms gene...

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...perous young men and women. This must change.

Works Cited

Boyle, Patrick. “Mentoring Pays Off”. Youth Today. 9 Jan. 2014. Web. 8 April 2015.

Kiddler, Rushworth M. “Consenting to Violence”. Institute for Global Ethics. 6 March 2014. Web. 10 April 2015.

“Kid Notes”. Young Life. 2014 Web. 9 April 2015.

“Kids Never Forget a Mentor”. Deparment of Social & Health Services. 8 Oct. 2014. Web. 8 April 2015.

“NIDA Infofacts: High School and Youth Trends”. National Institute on Drug Abuse. Dec. 2014. Mar 15 2005.

“Mentoring in Schools”. Creating Safe and Drug Free Schools. Sep 2014. Web. 5 April 2015.

“Statistics”. Students Against Destructive Decisions. 2014 Web. 5 April 2015.

“Vision and Mission”. Big Brothers Big Sisters of America. 2014 Web. 5 April 2015.

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