No parent wants their child to fail, get hurt, or make mistakes, but those are the things that build character and promote their self-development. Parents have to remember that one day their kids will have to be on their own and it’s their job to make sure that they are ready for the real world. It is okay to be a protective parent and want nothing but the best for your children, but being able to let a child be independent and in charge of their problems will help them in the future so much
Lots of parents think they have enough reasons for having a child, but do parents need children to satisfy themselves, to dedicate their love to him/her, or to train a good, useful person for the society they’re living in. Children are not toys whom whenever parents feel tired of them, just throw them away. They will grow up and will be parents someday. Children need to be supported. Not with neighbors, babysitters, friends, but with parents.
Parental friendships will surely help build a solid base for future relationships. At some point during a child’s development, the parenting role must turn into friendship. Many people feel that there should be a thick line between parents and children but I strictly disagree. Being friends with your children can come in handy because it is also a type of supervision, which helps parents see if they are walking in the right direction. As soon as they ensure their children are safe, they will be able to manage these aspects of their lives by themselves.
It means that parents can make any decisions regarding the welfare of their children without any interference from other people or the State. This right manifests itself in the authority or the power that parents have over their children. Though not owed any particular rights, children were obliged to honour parents and, if necessary, to support them. Everything that children did was supposed to be for the common good of the family and for them as autonomous individuals. It was the parents who decided what was good for the family and the children had no say even if it meant being sold into slavery or forced labour.
As an example: the families of the couple who are choosing their partner doesn't involve their parent selection and satisfaction. However, we cannot deny the fact that parent always wants their children to be happy. Before the couple get married they always ask their parent opinion, and it would mean lots to their parents for being at least a small part of their children personal life. This can bring respect to their children decision and more strong ties between parent and their children. So families will be happy as longer the couple are happy with their relationship.
Today there are many ways to run your household; all families have different techniques of parenting. Some parents are very gentle with their children and others not so much some parents think they need to give their children no freedom if they want to be successful in life and get everything they want in life. But in my opinion everyone should have their freedom to do anything they would like unless it doesn’t bring any good. But then you have to look at it in the parent’s perspective, if they control their lives they believe their children wouldn’t do anything bad or dangerous. Some children may listen to their parents because it’s the right thing to do but others might want to do that specific thing just because they were told not to in the first place.
In many ways adoption is a great way to save a life. Adoption can give a child endless opportunities at a new life. These opportunities are sometimes taken away when the children are abused and neglected. Just because a child is adopted, it does not mean that the child is safe or in good hands. The government needs to monitor the support of adopted children.
In the future many of these mistakes can affect the child in a negative way. Parenting is being there for your child at every stage in their life and not putting work as first priority. Being there for a child gives parents the chance to set boundaries and follow through with their word. Parenting is allowing a child to decide what sport or activity they want to do and encouraging them to give it all they have. As a parent, you are your child’s number one fan, parents have to be there to support the child not be against them.
Not having moral models, in parents own lives, may mean that being a moral mirror is difficult, it is never too late to develop one's own spirituality. Spending time with children is essential to their development of self-esteem and will one day lead to how they will parent their own children. Too many parents are buying their children's love; parents have to realize the importance their presence has. Distant parents produce children who have never developed the people skills you need to succeed in life. I feel that without a strong and involved upbringing a child will fall through the cracks in a society where everyone is fighting for their own success and won't stop to help a struggling person.
From then the social worker needs to find good adoptive parents with good a good background, no trouble, and a good living environment for the child. The Adoptive parents have a huge role in the child’s life. The child has already been through enough bad things or just living in an unsafe living environment, so it is the parent’s job to make sure they have what it takes to be adoptive parents because you never know what type of child you can get. I also believe you should not have children if... ... middle of paper ... ...pect people that are older than them period. And the adults need to also realize that just because they are older doesn’t mean that they can talk to you any kind of way and expect you not to get an attitude.