Anger Management

Every single person goes through life experiencing the same obstacles. Learning how to ride a bike or maybe losing a tooth but throughout the ups and downs, people gain an insight; an observation that can be told. Whether it’s from themselves or to the world. This vulnerability can draw people in but sometimes it can also draw them out. Emotions are one of those obstacles. Young children lack the understanding and complexity of the world around them. To simply put it, parents are lacking the proper techniques and skills needed to teach their children how to control their emotions. Children lash out not because their angry or mad but because parents failed to teach them skills to properly express their emotions. Anger and brutality in young children can be stopped but it takes understanding, knowledge, and control.

Anger must first be taught and understood to the fullest by the child before proceeding to the next process. The Oxford Dictionaries states that anger is a strong feeling of annoyance, displeasure or hostility. In other words becoming anger means that someone or something such as an event caused irritation, disapproval or unfriendliness. Anger is a natural emotion (Nordqvist). Since its natural it’s a given that everyone has it but does that mean anger is the same for everyone. Children lash out on the small things like not getting cookies or cutting in line. Proper techniques can teach children how to control their anger and not lash out. Anger ranges from mild irritation to rage (What is Anger) knowing this parents and teachers are safe when it mild because it can easily be control but are they willing to take a risk with surround students or kids when its rage. Personally the author wouldn’t take that risk. The surrounding children should be blamed or at fault when a child acts out. Every person has pet peeves so this obviously means that something can tick them off. Some people just have a better handle of their emotions compared to others. Just because something irritates a person doesn’t mean that it irritates the next person. Technically speaking adults have lived longer than many children but just because their older in age doesn't mean they are wise in knowledge. A parent can beat lessons or skills into a child but if the parent doesn't follow their own advice how can a child do so.