Analysis Of Snow Flower And Lily

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Lily, one of the main characters in the novel, was born into a low class, farming family, which left her and her sisters only allowed to marry a man of the same social status. However, to Lily’s advantage, she has extremely small feet with high arches, which gave her the potential to marry a man of a higher class and raise her family’s social status. She achieves perfect feet through the excruciating process of food binding, which allows her to be paired with a high-class family, where she continues to follow the expected culture and tradition that she is accustomed to by abstaining from food during certain holidays, crafting gifts to offer her new family, and dressing in appropriate garments for her wedding ceremony. Not much time passes when
A laotong relationship is made by choice for the purpose of emotional companionship and eternal fidelity” (See 43). Laotong is a relationship that bonds two girls together for the rest of their lives as extremely similar and close sisters. This special bond between Snow Flower and Lily allow them to feel what each other feel, share stories with each other, confide in each other, and give both of them the opportunity to gather and share knowledge through each other that the other may not have
Her husband took out his anger on her by beating her, and kept this a secret from Lily, who later witnesses this while spending several months in mountainous villages while a rebellion occurred. As it was their custom, Snow Flower knew she was to respect and care for her husband, even if he did not do the same for her in return. She bit her tongue when she had to talk about him, only speaking kind words and never brought up the tough times he put her through. Snow Flower proves this by explaining to Lily, “No listen, you think my husband has evil in his heart, but he is not an evil man” (See 209). Snow Flower knows she should not accept this harsh treatment from her spouse, however makes the ultimate decision to accept it now that she has her high social status back. She proves herself to be a respectable woman, as a nineteenth century Chinese woman should. With age, she is wise, becoming more soft spoken and has a true understanding of the difficult life she is living, although it is not under her control. With a man who beats her and an unpleasant mother in- law, Snow Flower truly suffers both physically and emotionally, but is sensible in knowing where to express her feelings, in “nu shu.” See explains, “They used nu shu to write letters, stories, and poems. It was “hidden” in embroidery, in weaving, and in paintings on fans. Women wrote

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