Daughters have always had a special bond with their fathers, even at the time where women did not have the same rights as men, and were seen as the weaker sex. This father is no different, in wanting the best for his little girl. The father in this letter wants the daughter to accomplish her roles differently than the women before her because he knows that women are capable of accomplishing “male” tasks. The letter also addresses how women were seen and treated by men and the changes that were occurring in order to gain a status quo for both men and women. Although this document “Letter to My Daughter” is about a father’s advice to his daughter. The document itself seems to be written by a woman. This can be seen in various places of the document, …show more content…
The author was able to convey this message by writing about how men treated and saw women “… laugh at women’s hats” , and how women are beginning to get their rights and working so that they will soon be seen as equals to men in both the private and public sphere. The author also wrote about how some women are oblivious to these changing and go about their daily life without any respect and that the hope is that the daughter does not become one of them “ … although there are plenty of women who haven’t heard the news yet. I hope you, my daughter, will be more enlightened” . The author goes on to say how the dream is that one day both sexes will be equal, and that men and women will be able to do whatever work they desire regardless of the stereotype of certain work forces, “ it’s a serious fact that he belongs at a sink just as much as a women. Men have proven over and over again that they make wonderful cooks” . This tells the daughter to see people not just as their sex, but as their skills and if women were to become equals to men, then that not only means that women being able to do what men do but men being able to do what women do without
It has been noted that Elizabeth Cady Stanton’s father on several occasions expressed that he wished Elizabeth had been a boy. Even when she excelled in life and completed tasks in attempts to please him, he constantly reminded her it was a shame she was born a girl. His constant reminder expressed to Elizabeth that her father believed that only males could be successful, which merely fueled her ambition to succeed and prove the contrary along with ensuring that other women follow...
In the letter, Abigail Adams, informs her daughter about how she likes the White house. But throughout it she shows her daughter how she reacts with her new surroundings. She acts spoiled and she complains.
Madeleine’s epistle is quite straightforward. Her message to her daughter is very sincere. She starts her epistle by referring to traditional views on how one should live their life. "Ancient lovers of learning, / Said that to God one must do one’s duty, / Then to one’s country, and a third to one’s lineage" (ll.1-3). But Madeleine is quick to refute those opinions. She then states that while she does honor God, she is completely helpless when it comes to public service affairs on the other hand because men have all the power. "I revere the Lord God; as for my country, I lack all power, / Men have full authority" (ll. 7-8). It is here that Madeleine refers to the Salic Law, the law that excludes women from the throne. But Madeleine’s duty to her "lineage" or daughter is taken much more seriously. Since Madeleine has no control over Salic Law, she takes control of the matters she has a say in. Her daughter is under her control. She feels the need to provide the best life for her daughter as possible. And thus she writes this piece as a guide for her.
Girls were seen as the property of their fathers – to be given away to
He mentions how far women have come since his grandmother's day, but realizes the country as a whole has more room to grow. He mentions how tough it can be for women to juggle a demanding career while raising a family. Both text reference what honor motherhood is but they also admit the demanding workforce can determine how successful a mother they can be. Women today may not face slavery, but they face double standards that limit them to be successful professionals and parents.
This is because the girl dreams of being a beautiful superhero. She dreams of flying and the mother even says “Oh, if only I could fly”, these both indicate very powerful situations. Also, I feel that as a little girl the character is left out a lot, like when her parents are talking in the mornings and she cannot get up until her mother comes to wake her. But, the girl mentions in her dreams that she can see everything that happens, maybe because she is now a woman and is not left out like she is in her real life. Lastly, she dreams of being a superhero with super powers, this shows she wants to be powerful, but cannot be in her waking life. I believe the vision the writer, Judith Ortiz Cofer, is trying to portray is women do want to be powerful. Both the daughter and the mother want to fly and do something more with their lives, but they cannot. I believe many women could relate to the story when it was written in the mid-twentieth century. This is because at the time women were expected to be housewives and not do many extraordinary things. Also, I believe many women wanted to do powerful things, like vote and get a job, and this was a time period when the view of women’s roles was
Adams responds to her new surroundings by writing a letter to her daughter from the white house. She is tell her how she is there. She also tells her what is happening. Adams is telling her daughter what it is like at the white house.
As women, there has always been an issue with equality between themselves and men. Even though there has been a significant amount of progress in the United States throughout the years, there are women that still suffer with equal rights around the world. In A Doll’s House by Henrik Ibsen, “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?” by Joyce Carol Oates, and “Hills Like White Elephants” by Ernest Hemingway, there are many aspects throughout them that relate to each other in numerous ways. The main theme between them is the way woman are treated and how they appear to be less equal of the men in their lives. Even though men are presumed to be the more dominate gender, women should be just as equal socially, financially, and academically, and not feel pressured by men. For the women and girl in A Doll’s House, “Where Are You Going, Where Have You Been?”, and “Hills Like White Elephants”, they suffer with the idea of feeling compelled to do what the men say and follow his direction of how their life should be.
Women were to grow up, get married and have kids. They would have to stay home and be horse wives while the men went to work. Society made girls have no ambition if life. The author wanted to change the ways of society because her goal was not typical. She didn’t want to become what society wanted her to become. . “I hated the hot dark kitchen in the summer.” (p. 530). Her drive was generated by the need to belong to working society. Wanting to do what men did, but was forced to not even try. The male was the dominant figure in the house, with the wife being obedient. The mom in the story usually only came out of the house to hang dry cloths, and maintain to her garden. The narrator had issues coming to agreements with the role she was suspected to live out. When she tried she looked out of place, with her bare lumpy legs, which have never seen sunlight, her apron still damp on the stomach from washing the dishes. She wanted to prove she was worthy, but her father wouldn’t let her. He made her proceed with society typical women’s life. In his eyes she was of no help to him “Wait till Laird gets a little bigger, then you’ll have a real help” (p. 530).” She was driven to prove her importance I society. The author didn’t want duplicate her mother life. She had her own goals and values in
“Gender matters. Men and women experience the world differently. Gender colors the way we experience the world. But we can change that.” She writes “And this how we start. We must raise our daughters differently. We must raise our sons differently.”
With the new laws, women were granted the right to take care of young daughters, but not sons (Buckley 101). This act clearly indicated the moral influence that a woman had at home, while a man’s dominance was in the field of politics and in trading areas. There was a clear differentiation between gender-based ideologies. Isecke notes that Women largely applied the concept of moral motherhood so as to be granted social justice over the years that followed. This marked a new milestone in the way women were viewed in the society. More attention was paid to them and their influence towards the society was largely appreciated.
In modern society, the relationship between a parent and child is an ever-changing one. Although, parents of different cultures play different roles for their children as they grow up. In a time from Elizabethan England to the late 19th century Ireland, the fifth commandment, states, “Honor thy father and mother” although, most importantly “honor thy father” was the basis of the parent-child relationship. It was a patriarchal society and the daughters in these ages were possibly the greatest victims of that time—As the famous Scottish Reformer, John Knox said, “Women in her greatest perfection was made to serve and obey men.” Furthermore, the men regarded women in these times as “the weaker sex,” both physically and emotionally. During both periods, the men were the leaders and the females were their inferiors.
When looking at their role in a family, they should meet the family’s economic needs, make the important decisions, and provide leadership. In contrast, women are made out to be creatures who are weak, dependent, and powerless. They need a man to take care of them because they cannot do it for themselves. When looking at their role in a family, they should run the household by caring for the children and meeting the emotional needs of family members. In most cases of the modern world, it is okay for women to become strong and independent by deviating from this social construction. However, God forbid a man shed a tear or do anything that is considered feminine. While people are becoming more accepting of this deviance, it is still not widely accepted by
Dream Children is a fascinating story of a young woman who only dreams to be free because she lives within a society where women are looked upon as lesser than men. While using mainly the Feminist criticism but also the Marxism criticism, the story evolved into this passionate story of a women going through her own life trying to escape from society and its patriarchal ways.
Women have always been essential to society. Fifty to seventy years ago, a woman was no more than a house wife, caregiver, and at their husbands beck and call. Women had no personal opinion, no voice, and no freedom. They were suppressed by the sociable beliefs of man. A woman’s respectable place was always behind the masculine frame of a man. In the past a woman’s inferiority was not voluntary but instilled by elder women, and/or force. Many, would like to know why? Why was a woman such a threat to a man? Was it just about man’s ability to control, and overpower a woman, or was there a serious threat? Well, everyone has there own opinion about the cause of the past oppression of woman, it is currently still a popular argument today.