Analysis Of Anne Meneley's Tournament Of Values

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In recent years, in the United States, the nation’s view towards Middle Eastern women has been altered, due to, their involvement in domestic and global terrorism. Along with, news of Middle Eastern women being mistreated by men and their society because of their gender. In other words, Middle Eastern women are subjected to gender-based violence and gender inequality, as a result, of their sex. In Anne Meneley’s Tournament of Values: Sociability and Hierarchy in a Yemeni Town, Meneley briefly touches upon gender-based violence and gender inequality, but focuses more on how hierarchy plays a role in the way sociability is developed in Zabid, a Yemeni town. When I read Anne Meneley’s Tournament of Values, I learned that in Zabid, women play a …show more content…

Back then, it was unacceptable for a woman to take care of a man. However, that belief no longer exists because education is now deemed important. Having a woman help in the house can help meet the bills. Moreover, when kibar families started sending their daughters to school, the community no longer considered educating women a disgrace. The kibar are families whose wealth has been passed on for generations, who live together in a large complex, and share a budget (Meneley 1996: 64-65). In other words, kibar’s financial status can be the equivalent of rich people in the United States. As a result, of the community moving forward, as well as, their views towards kibar families, Zabidi women’ roles have transformed from a passive to an active role inside and outside the household.
In “Women as Sisters and Wives,” a sub-chapter in “The Bayt: Family and Household,” Zabidi women are divided into “two ways: as daughters and sisters, and as wives and mothers” (Meneley 1996: 73). Daughters, sisters, wives, and mothers all have to be obedient to the men in the house. It is their duty to be compliant to the men and if they are not shame is brought to the family. Not only do the young wives have to obey their new husbands, but also their step-mothers. In that regard, women have a passive role because they have no autonomy and are dependent …show more content…

Zabidi women ensured that their guests are given the best hosting experience. If the hosting experience is mediocre the hostess will be publicly given a bad review, which will ruin the hostess’s reputation. Meneley writes, “One of the ways status is constituted is by talking. Guests create the status of the hostess through praising her, not to her face, but to others” (1996: 102). The guests have the power to elevate the hostess’s reputation (status) only if they are satisfied with the hostess’s services. If the hostess receives a great review, then she will have the credibility that she needs to continue to build relations. Zabidi women play an active and passive role through hosting because their job gives them the leverage to move forward in society, only if they are rewarded. The active role is achieved through building relations, but the passive role is given to the women when they are placed with a condition.
In “The Meaning of Adornment,” a sub-chapter within “Distinction and Display in the Visiting Scene,” Meneley explains how important adornment (fashion) is for Zabidi women. The women made sure that they publicly dress too impressed because they know that their families and themselves will be judged (Meneley 1996: 109). Zabidi women become the active participators when they dress appropriately to their culture to ensure their families’

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