Grief Girl is a novel written by Erin Vincent about her and her sibling’s experience of losing both their mother and father. Vincent was only fourteen years old at the time of her parents’ death. The chapter goes into detail about the events of the night of Vincent’s parents’ death. Based on the chapter, I can conclude that Vincent definitely went through at least two of the stages of grief. The fact that the novel is nonfiction helps me connect with the emotions that Vincent felt that day. Her details are extremely vivid and it is recognizable that Vincent recalls the events from that day very well.
In this time we must fully realize the true origins of our society, not the so called “party line” they feed us. True, while few of us find sanctuary in hidden places, what place is there for we strangelings? Is absolute equality truly a good idea? In our new world, our Walden Two, we are taught from an early age to behave, to conform. From our glass cages at birth, to our debuts at age seven, to our eventual marriages, all we do is in the name of a peaceful, simple existence. We are taught that anger is not allowed, faith in God is not allowed, anything harmful is forbidden! I ask of you, is this truly a life, much less, a life worth living?
Have you ever woke up in the morning and asked yourself, “Why am I living this life?” Throughout the book of Walden, Henry David Thoreau questions the lifestyles that people choose; he makes his readers wonder if they have chosen the kind of lifestyle that give them the greatest amount of happiness. Thoreau stated, “Most men, even in this comparatively free country, through mere ignorance and mistake, are so occupied with the factitious cares and superfluously coarse labors of life that its finer fruits cannot be plucked by them().” This quote is important because most of society these days are so caught up in work and trying to make ends meet that they lose the values in life. Thoreau was forced to change his life when he found himself unhappy after a purchase for a farm fell through. On Thoreau’s journey he moves to Walden and builds a house and life from nothing but hard work, symbolizes many different objects.
To Thoreau, life’s progress has halted. It seems people have confused progression with captivity driven by materialism. To Krakaeur, people are indifferent to pursing the sublime in nature. To Christopher McCandles the world around him is forgetting the purpose of life. People are blind to nature. In the eyes of these men the world is victim to commercial imprisonment. People live to achieve statuses that only exist because man made them. Fame, money, and monotonous relationships do not exist in nature; they are the pursuits of soulless fundamentalism. The truth is that people pursue meaningless goals, and people don’t want to hear or know how they are foolish. When exposed, reality is so unsettling that it seems wrong. Yet, to be free of the falseness in life is in essence the point of singularity that people realize if there is no truth in love then it is false, if there is no truth in money then it is worthless, if there is no truth in fame then it is undeserving. Without truth everything is a worthless pursuit of a meaningless glass ceiling.
Thoreau conveys many points in his writing and a large recurring one is the state of society. As stated before, he believed that people are too focused on physical gain and modernization which leads them into desperation. He adds on to this belief later in the book asking that above all else whether it be money or fame he be given honesty (Thoreau 246). To Thoreau, the truth is more important than anything measurable in status. Thoreau believes that a minimalist lifestyle is a good lifestyle, similar to Mccandless. He speaks of how it is good that he can put all of his belonging in one pile in his yard because it removes the clutter from his life (Thoreau 85). He also says that his best quality in life is to want very little, because it keeps himself true to himself and keeps him from distraction. Thoreau also believes that every man should be one in himself not oppressed by the government. He says that everyone should be able to be themselves whether is is in accord with the government or not (Thoreau 240). He is essentially saying that the government should not be a part of people's life decisions only to maintain the
To Henry David Thoreau, the society’s preoccupation with money and wealth seems to be foolish in that they are transient and they costs humanity. Hence, he recommends a life excluding all superfluities. Owning more than the indispensable only distracts a person from seeing the very truth of life. He asks people to establish a goal of life rather than just chasing money. He urges people to “discover that they did not live.”
The use of inspiring phrases and words such as “break through” and “free” should persuade the reader, but Thoreau’s lack of connection to the common man drives the audience away. To the reader, it seems that Thoreau is too disconnected from the world; he does not know how to interact with ordinary people. He looks down upon everyday citizens as if he is better than them. Though he places himself on a high pedestal, Thoreau does not understand how fortunate he is. While most people in his era were struggling to put food on the table, Thoreau lived in the woods pondering his mind on a full stomach. Thoreau’s emotional interaction with the audience causes separation between the two parties because he fails to appeal to the
Christie Watson once said, “…there are two possible endings to every story” (Watson 432) in her novel, Tiny Sunbirds, Far Away. If two people were placed in the same situation, it is possible, maybe even fact, that each individual will have a different experience or overall outcome. In “Resistance to Civil Government,” Henry David Thoreau writes about his confinements after being arrested. Thoreau also mentions his reasoning for resisting the civil government, mainly because of its flaws. His essay gained a lot of acclaim in America because of his views of possible liberation. However, taking into consideration Ms. Watson’s words, liberation may not be the case for everyone who follows similar
Gail Godwin's short story "A Sorrowful Woman" revolves around a wife and mother who becomes overwhelmed with her husband and child and withdraws from them, gradually shutting them completely out of her life. Unsatisfied with her role as dutiful mother and wife, she tries on other roles, but finds that none of them satisfy her either. She is accustomed to a specific role, and has a difficult time coping when a more extensive array of choices is presented to her. This is made clear in this section of the story.
Imagine, a reality where one lives in a world where everyone is equal, no one is better than the other. In a way, contradicting of the norms of reality today. Right before one’s eye, one would think it is a reasonably faultless place, a utopia; although, if one begins to look closely at the situation. The individual will begin to uncover something grimmer in this so called utopia, only to find no one should not truly want everything to be equal, abnormally enough. Everything is unquestionably monotone. Innovation is practically out the window, and nothing can be done about it. The characters Harrison Bergeron, the Empress, and Hazel of Harrison Bergeron by Kurt Vonnegut Jr. shows that equality for all is not as noteworthy as it advertises.
Many experts would agree that there are different stages in grief. Denial, anger, bargaining, depression, and acceptance are stages that many grief stricken people must endure to manage life after a traumatic death. The story “The Fly” by Katherine Mansfield has only a few characters in it, but those few characters show the different stages of grief. The characters illustrate how different the grieving process is when the circumstances of the deaths are the same.
“Talking to Grief,” by Denise Levertov approaches the topic of grief by using a homeless dog as the primary symbol in which we see the dog make the transition from acceptance to becoming a permanent household member. The theme of the poem is the welcoming and acceptance of grief and viewing it as a friend rather than an enemy. The narrator gets the point across that grief is a misunderstood companion and sometimes needs to be present for the sake of healing.
as, the basic elements of becoming a housewife, however, her longing for something better causes her to look and behave like anything but.
As one first reads Frank O 'Hara 's poem "The Day Lady Died," it may seem like a short and straightforward poem that does have much meaning to it. When the poem begins, a man is simply going about his day and performing basic everyday actions. The poem becomes slightly more out of the ordinary towards the second half of the poem, but it is quite hard to interpret what is occurring. However, as one begins to pick up on context clues and perhaps research certain parts of the poem, their view on the poem may change and they may discover aspects that they did not at first pick up on. "The Day Lady Died" is a meaningful poem where Frank O 'Hara discusses the infamous day that his beloved idol Billie Holiday passed away.
In the short story “From a Secret Sorrow”, by Van De Zee the author depicts the protagonist Faye as a weak character. In the short story Faye loves Kai, but is afraid that what she has been hiding from him may make him not want to marry her. By analyzing the characters through a present lens, we can see how Faye is a weak character by her not telling the truth as soon as she heard the news, by thinking Kai wouldn’t love and marry her, and Faye stealing Kai’s car and running away from her guilt.