Abuse And Violence In Joyce Carol Oates Where Is Here?

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The story “Where is Here?” by Joyce Carol Oates is a story that addresses many heavy topics. Some of those topics are: abuse and violence, how we treat our family when no one is watching, and how hospitable people truly are to strangers. Through careful analysis of this multilayered story, we can uncover some hidden gems. Who is the stranger in the story, How does violence play into the connections the stranger makes, and In what sense is the stranger dead? By asking ourselves questions such as these, we gain a deeper knowledge of the story. To begin, the story opens with a family receiving a visit by a stranger on a November evening. Since the author uses words like “chill, damp, deepening dusk” (Oates 325) to describe the condition of the …show more content…

Recalling the similarities and differences of the house and occupants from the present to the past 1) the general structure of the house. 2) The fact that the stranger had a mother, a father, and a sister, and 3) where the strangers father and the current father sat for dinner. Out of all the differences brought up, the appearance of the house from the strangers memory seems to be the most noteworthy. For example the stranger stated “dark by day, dark by night” (Oates 327) probably due to the gloomy circumstances of his childhood. The stranger soon becomes distressed and agitated in the house which we find out is due to his fathers abusive nature. One moment in particular when memories started rushing in was when he looked at the window seat. The stranger describes the memory of his mother asking him riddles such as “ ‘What is round, and flat, measuring mere inches in one direction, and infinity in the other?’ ‘Out of what does our life arise? Out of what does our consciousness arise? Why are we here? Where is here?’” (Oates 328). These questions just like the act of violence and abuse don’t have a definitive answer but they go on and on until the answer to the question eventually become the question itself. The stranger goes on with his tour and continues upstairs and its noted that the son and the stranger had the same bedroom. The mother and father ask if the stranger wants to see their room but the stranger …show more content…

As previously mentioned, the stranger had a limp, and when he shook the parents hand he felt cold due to the cold weather. When he was in the house he began to sweat, he spoke, and unloosened his tie, so we know he is not a ghost. He is however emotionally a ghost, the toll abuse takes on a person is indescribable. To be able to visit the scene of the crime and still retain your composure is difficult. In the story there were multiple scenes when it appeared that the stranger was going to break down but he didn’t. This reveals a lot about his

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