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I was only ten years old when mother and I were involved in a fatal car accident heading home from a New Years Eve party with a few of her coworkers. The roads were slick with a glaze of black ice as a light snowfall began to trickle down through the crisp cold air. It’s been five years since then, and I still recall hearing my mother scream as she slid into a nearby telephone pole. The impact projected her still intoxicated body out the front window, shattering the glass and landing on the frozen, white powdered ground nearby.
Cars passed by as I laid next to my mother’s unconscious body, which steadily bleed from the mouth. It had to have been at least half an hour before I heard the faint sounds of sirens off in the distance. The paramedics took us in an ambulance and immediately started treatment on mother. However, her pulse became too weak due to her substantial blood loss and she quietly passed away a few hours later. I was fortunate to walk away with only a few painful bruises left by the seat belt.
My grandparents, who were the one’s who took me in, said she died because she was a sinful human being. I never did understand why nor did I ever understand the tension in their relationship. Often times when they would talk over the phone, I’d hear my mother screaming and weeping downstairs in the unfinished basement of our home. When we would seldom stopover them during the holidays, mother would keep her distance-even sometimes taking a small walk around a nearby lifeless park. Regardless, my grandparents believed my mother’s poisoned ways would one day find their way into me.
From the day they claimed me, I lived a very unusual life compared to the other children on my street. Pap and Gram practically isolated me from the r...
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...e stupid, absurd mistake. Soon enough I was able to convince myself to not care. I was able to teach myself that no matter who you are, there would always be someone there to judge you. That’s just how people are, especially when it came to high school.
As this idea flourished, I was making friends without the fear of my name speculating throughout the district. I was hanging out with a group of kids that evolved around the music genre of rock, metal and punk styles. Drugs were a commodity within the clique so when someone brought them out, I’d furtively walk away without anyone noticing. Even though I promised myself I wouldn’t touch these substances, I wasn’t exactly all innocent. I began to stand up against my grandparent’s strict house rules. More and more I would stay out past curfew. I’d neglect my phone and missed many anger-filled phone calls from gram.
On November 1st, 1962 a boy was brought into the world. Who knew that this seven and half pound and twenty-one inch long infant would grow up to be one of America’s top rockers? However, before the fame and glory dawned upon Kiedis, there was the drug world. Anthony started his first years of life living with his mother, Peggy Nobel. He would keep in touch with his father through letters and phone calls. While Anthony lived in Michigan with his mother, his father was living in L.A., California. Then in sixth grade Anthony only twelve years old moved to California with his father. His father, John Kiedis, was the first to introduce Anthony to marijuana, cocaine, and heroin. By the time Anthony was fourteen he was already doped up on coke and flying high with his love of Mary Jane. Not many people realize that John Kiedis was the infamous drug dealer to the band Led Zeppelin and Alice Cooper. It is no wonder ...
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A moment in time that I hold close to myself is the funeral of my grandmother. It occurred a couple of weeks ago on the Friday of the blood drive. The funeral itself was well done and the homily offered by the priest enlightened us with hope and truth. But when the anti-climatic end of the funeral came my family members and relatives were somberly shedding tears. A sense of disapproval began creeping into my mind. I was completely shocked that I did not feel any sense of sadness or remorse. I wanted to feel the pain. I wanted to mourn, but there was no source of grief for me to mourn. My grandma had lived a great life and left her imprint on the world. After further contemplation, I realized why I felt the way I felt. My grandmother still
Since I did not know anyone else was my mother. According to my sister, we lived in our house alone, without any guardian guiding, or caring for my siblings and I. We ate our meals at my Aunt Gloria’s since we did not have any food at our own house. Moreover, It was a norm in El Salvador, the male to abuse their wives and children. Our cousins were our bullies; they saw their own mother abused by their alcoholic father. I asked my sister Yenis recently, “Why our cousins bullied us?” She said, “When you did not finish your meal, they would force you to finish your meal by smacking you.” When I was slightly older, I remembered I was standing on a ledge my grandfather build to prevent landslides. When I was standing on the ledge, I was thinking about how tall the ledge was, I looked to my right at my cousin when he pushed me, forcing me to fall down to the bottom of the ledge. I remember going in and out of consciousness. My grandfather picked me up from the ground and brought me inside my grandmother’s house. During the time, my grandmother clamored at my cousin, Yessica, to get warm water and rags. I remember feeling the warmth of the blood dripping down the back of my head. My grandparents did not take me to the hospital with the limitations they possessed. As a neglected parentless child I became withdrawn and
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Growing up I was faced with the hardship that no child should have to go though, having a mother that battled relapsing cancer six different times. Seeing her go through this pain really changed who I was as a person because no matter what I tried to do, I couldn’t stop her pain. Like the narrator in “The Raven,” I spent many nights trying anything I could to distract my thoughts of my mom dealing with this disease. At the age of 25 I was forced to face my worst fear as the disease took my mom’s life. Many questions came to mind after she passed, including my own faith. How could a god torture such a wonderful lady that so many people loved for so many years before finally allowing her to have peace in death. “Is there even a god” came to mind so many times because surely a higher being that created us would never allow this to happen. I would often catch myself looking for superficial things as the narrator did when he was talking to raven to ask the same questions as too will I ever see my mother again, or is she now resting in a better place such as “Balm in Gilead”? Seven years later I’m still left with the same remorse that I had the day my mom passed. There is nothing that I’ve have done to try and ease the pain of losing her that has worked. Every day I wake up to a memory of something that my mom used to do that reminds me just how much I miss her. This event has truly made me a believer that the death of an individual does stay with a person and causes them pain for the rest of their life much to the same effect that Edgar Allen Poe showed in his writing of “The
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It was a Monday night; I remember it like it was yesterday. I had just completed my review of Office Administration in preparation for my final exams. As part of my leisure time, I decided to watch my favorite reality television show, “I love New York,” when the telephone rang. I immediately felt my stomach dropped. The feeling was similar to watching a horror movie reaching its climax. The intensity was swirling in my stomach as if it were the home for the butterflies. My hands began to sweat and I got very nervous. I could not figure out for the life of me why these feelings came around. I lay there on the couch, confused and still, while the rings continued. My dearest mother decided to answer this eerie phone call. As she picked up, I sat straight up. I muted the television in hopes of hearing what the conversation. At approximately three minutes later, the telephone fell from my mother’s hands with her faced drowned in the waves of water coming from her eyes. She cried “Why?” My Grandmother had just died.
The National Highway Traffic Safety Administration estimates, “More than 10,000 young people in the United States are killed and 40,000 are injured in auto accidents when alcohol is involved” (“Understanding The Effects Of Alcohol: Drunk Driving”). Unfortunately, Jack was one of those individuals. Newly twenty-one, Jack was thrilled by the privilege to finally be able to drink legally. It was two o’clock in the morning, and the air was cold and dry. After a long evening of playing pool and enjoying drinks, Jack was now headed to his cozy home where his girlfriend was awaiting his arrival. The road was covered in a slight layer of pure white snow, as the December flurries began to set in. Jack knew there was snow on the road, so he drove along at a safe and careful speed. What he did not realize was that he slowly was gaining speed. As the alcohol began to catch up with Jack’s body, tiredness overcame him and he gradually dozed off. The next think he knew, he was lying in a hospital bed with his girlfriend apprehensively watching him. Once he regained consciousness, he was informed of his accident. He had skidded into the adjacent ditch, because of the slippery roads, and crashed into a tree line. His car looked like a piece of crumpled up wrapping paper on Christmas morning. Doctors said it was miraculous that he was even alive, but Jack was astonished to find out that he would never walk again. Although it may not seem like it to him or his family, Jack was very lucky to have had the accident he did. By making the decision to drive drunk, he could have risked an innocent individual’s
Two years and four months ago I died. A terrible condition struck me, and I was unable to do anything about it. In a matter of less than a year, it crushed down all of my hopes and dreams. This condition was the death of my mother. Even today, when I talk about it, I burst into tears because I feel as though it was yesterday. I desperately tried to forget, and that meant living in denial about what had happened. I never wanted to speak about it whenever anyone would ask me how I felt. To lose my Mom meant losing my life. I felt I died with her. Many times I wished I had given up, but I knew it would break the promise we made years before she passed away. Therefore, I came back from the dead determined and more spirited than before.
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