The Importance Of Equal Parental Responsibility

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Equal Parental Responsibility
Neglect, abuse, poverty all haunt the lives of innocent children. Kids are exposed to both good and bad natures of parenthood, but the concept of each nature is not fully understood at a young age. Just like when a father is undecided on whether or not he wants to participate in his kid’s life, the mother is expected to play the positions of “mommy” and “daddy”. When the child becomes an adult, they realize that the love and support that both parents gave was not mutual. It is unfair that one parent could not be as responsible as the other. Because these issues exist, the law states that our courts will decide the responsibilities of each parent depending on the best interest for the child. (“Parental Responsibility …show more content…

People are judged because they have two mothers or fathers living in their household. This judgement is opinionated, but as a result the ideal image of a normal household consists of a mother, a father, and a child because naturally only a man can impregnate a woman. Mary Parke published an article titled “Are children Better off to Grow up With Their Married, Biological Parents?” After reading the article, statistics have shown that kids who have been raised by a single parent indured more poverty and health and psychological issues. (“Are Children Better off to Grow up With Their Married, Biological Parents?”. Center for Law and Social Policy. Mary Parke, May 2003. Web.) Out of wedlock births continue to grow which may affect our economy. In 2013, the National Center for Statistics found 40.6% of unmarried women to have out of wedlock births.(“Unmarried Childbearing”. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.CDC National Center for Statistics, 2015. Web.) The more this percentage continues to grow, there is a greater risk for an increase in poverty and health and psychological issues. Equal responsibilities reduce the risk of having your child develop issues found more commonly in single parent families. Parenthood can play more of an effective role to society than just in the

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