Characteristics Of Interpersonal Communication

Friendships, whether they are close friendships, acquaintances or co-workers, are vital social relationships which can bring us “emotional, material, and health rewards” (Floyd, 2011, p. 308). The interpersonal communication within these relationships can make it easier to communicate, make the relationship socially attractive or highlight differences that may or may not be complementary. I have evaluated three friendships, one from a different culture, one from a different religion and one from a different socio-economic background, to highlight the characteristics of the different friendships.

It may seem odd, but my friend from a different culture is the easiest for me to communicate with effortlessly. Oanh is from Vietnam and came to the United States when she was very young. Although she was raised in the United States, her

I have known her for nine years and during that time, she has lived in several different places and had a few serious romantic relationships. Allie is single and always has something going on in her life. I am reminded of our differences when I see her make her very limited grocery list due to a limited budget or from time-to-time when bill collectors call for her. Although we are from different socio-economic statuses, I don’t believe that it affects our friendship. Allie is by far the most fun of my friends to talk to. Allie and I can talk about work, school, makeup, the latest trends and children. Thinking about the fun talks I have with Allie reminds me that, “…having friends at work is great, because friends can make the workday pleasant and help and support you when you need it” (Floyd, 2011, p. 302). I don’t view our socio-economic difference as a factor in our relationship. I believe that the qualities of our same-sex friendship overrides the difference as I “…tend to place a greater emphasis on conversational and emotional expressiveness…” (Floyd, 2011, p.