Adolescent Separation and Individuation

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Adolescence serves the purpose of reorganizing the self and abandoning the security of childhood in the quest to forge a new identity. As adolescence sets in, teens naturally proceed through the ongoing task of separation and individuation from the family unit. Even under optimal circumstances, some teens face anxiety surrounding the new sense of responsibility; others appear to seamlessly leave this phase behind prepared for the accountability that comes with adulthood. Regardless of how difficult or simple this process may seem from the outside, those undergoing this growth are faced with an immeasurable amount of uncertainty and even a sense of nostalgia for the loss of childhood. In the most ideal of conditions, one undoubtedly experiences a wide range of emotions, but consider for a moment the uncertainty of a teen encountering this separation in the most brutal conditions imaginable.

Elie Wiesel’s memoir Night recounts the time he spent in a Nazi concentration camp, as a 15 year old boy, and his struggle to survive in this unforeseen course of events. His experiences in the camp force him to prematurely accept his father as the mortal man of the present over the idealized childlike view once held of him. The process of separation and individuation is complicated by life in the camps and the duty he feels to his father and their successful survival. Initially, he clings to the security he believes his father can provide but eventually begins the process of separation to save his own life; as a result, he loses his father forever. Wiesel’s sudden relocation to Auschwitz becomes a catalyst thrusting him into the uncertainty of emerging adulthood.

One of the most influential losses in the life of a teenager is the ...

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...ulthood, and according to Smollar and Younis, “the increase in adulthood is assumed to go along with biographical transitions such as the completion of schooling and marriage, which in turn present new contexts for the relationship” (75). Wiesel’s role change from child to caretaker fits the criteria of biographical transition, even though it was atypical and occurred over a short duration. The circumstances he experienced in the camp increased the momentum at which Wiesel moved through the adolescent phases.

Works Cited

Borowitz, Christopher. "The experiential modes of time in adolescence." Psychoanalytic Psychology 28.1 (2011): 132-144. Print.

Smollar, J., and J. Youniss. "Transformations is adolescents' perception of parents." International Journal of Behavioral Development 12 (1989): 71-84. Print.

Wiesel, Elie. Night. New York: Bantam Books, 1986. Print.

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