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The first time in Kuwaiti low that start to apply the divorce cases is in 1984. The ratio in Kuwait country for the divorce is 71%. Although divorces threaten many societies, their effects can also be combated successfully. What is the divorce case means and there are three solutions to divorce problem such us sit together with a therapist, remain faithful, and stop argue and listen.
There are several causes of the divorce such as misunderstand. Sometime one of the couples didn’t understand the situation that the other has been through. In the article, “Family law in Kuwait” written by the Embassy of the United States shows that the Kuwait follow the Islamic ways in the court and they ably the roles on the Kuwaiti people in the divorce case (n. d.). In 2009 in Kuwait my cousin his parents’ divorce after several time try to save the marriage. First the problem was where the husband go and come late at night without telling to the wife where he going. Then the wife tries to do the same thing with him and they have fought all the night in front my cousin which he is the only child they have. After the first fight they fight every day because of too many problems and they decided to get divorce because they can’t live together. So divorce is two people that they married before they get separate between each other’s and it effect on the child. Like my cousin his parents’ divorce he didn’t eat for to many days and he totally collapse and slept in the hospital for many days. So divorce is not a good solution to solve the problem when you have a child that you should take care and provides to him everything that he wants to learn or to live with it and that is a responsibility of the parent to do.
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...ry to do at least one of the solutions such us sit together with a therapist, remain faithful, and stop argue and listen. If you have read this research, then you just have to take a second to think carefully about how to prevent divorce and what will happens if you get divorce. If you sit with the therapist and listen for the other explanation it might be misunderstand and makes you prevent doing something you might regret on it all your life. In 2010 my cousin Ali wanted to divorce his wife because she always outside the house and she didn’t tell him where she going, but they sit together and talk to each other and find a solution before he/she do something (Haider, 2014). So if my cousin didn’t sit with his wife and talk, he will go and divorce her and he will regret to do that all his life and he will feel a huge pain that he didn’t thing or get throw it before.

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