It 's a lifelong adjustment for parents who has a child or children with a disability. Not only do the parents need adjusting but it also takes the child 's siblings to adjust as well. In order to understand the child , families must learn to accept and tolerate him or her. Parents who are expecting often dream of having a healthy baby, One who shares the same features and values . But when a child is born very different from their parent and is born with a disability , how is the parents supposed to cope and build a loving bond with their child? Any family who has a new baby factors often changes. When the child has a disability, the family often feels sorry for him or her. They have to take full responsibility and care for the child. …show more content…
These common stresses include frustration at not being able to make themselves understood; unhappiness at being left to play alone; irritation over constant reminders about everything; withdrawal because of lack of social skills; low self-esteem; and anger resulting from an inability to do things as easily and quickly as their non-disabled brothers and sisters. Through it all, with understanding and support, there are usually many positive interactions and normal sibling give-and-take situations from which each learns and matures. Disabled children do not want to be labelled. They want to be seen as “normal”, they want to socialize with others and share experience with other children (Marlene Ritchie). Disabled children are usually bullied and harassed because they are different or because they can’t fend for themselves. “ In a report published today, the charity found that 82% of children with learning disabilities are bullied and 79% are scared to go out because they are frightened they might be bullied (Anthea Lipsett)”. Many children with disabilities who suffered from bullying said that they stayed away from the places where the bullying took place. Others said that they just stayed in their room, hiding from the situation and cried. Bullying linked to disabilities often wreck children 's lives. This leads them to be antisocial in childhood and
Unfortunately, a lot of parents may have a difficult time accepting their child, and coping with their needs and the responsibilities. From the book “The Elephant in the Playroom,” some families dealt with depression and physical and mental deterioration of their health. These struggles were shown in the story by Laura Cichoracki. Laura’s son’s name was Patrick. Patrick was a 6-years-old boy with autism. “I wasn’t eating right, I wasn’t showering regularly, I wasn’t sleeping well” (Brodey, p. 64). I also read the story told by Susan Marrash-Minnerly, which highlighted emotions that parents face. Susan also shed light on how wonderful children with special needs can be to a family, such as her ten-year-old third grader who had autism. Susan talked about how it was normal to feel angry at times, especially with the ups and downs a child’s disability may come with. “When I look back, I want to tell other parents that a child’s future is worth grieving over – but it’s not the end of the world” (Brodey, p. 75). After reading these stories, it became apparent to me that families who are raising kids with special needs, need support, kindness, and available resources. “I was fortunate to be surrounded by other moms who understood my pain…who could be supportive and emphatic.” (Brodey, p. 67). Overall, educators can use this kind of information that was shared in “The Elephant in the Playroom” about family systems and risk/resiliency by creating lines of open communication between families. This is to connect parents together that share similar struggles. By creating open communication is can allows for the teacher and parents to be on the same page when it comes to the issues affecting special needs students and
Many of the challenges children on the spectrum face, continue to be areas of hardship during adolescence. The transition from childhood to adolescence is a vulnerable and challenging time for typically developing children, but even more so for those with ASD. Bullying and peer-victimization increases during adolescence for these children, as their lack of social skills and close friendships makes them easy targets. According to Fisher and Taylor (2015), out of thirty students with ASD they surveyed, 73 percent had experienced at least one
Teachers often mistake students with disabilities as “annoying” and write them off as “dumb” or “lazy,” due to lack of education. I understand some teachers experience training with the mentally ill or learning disabled population, however I strongly believe every teacher, everywhere, should experience extensive training with children who have any kind of disability. As school staff it is our job to provide a safe learning environment for our children, especially because many children do not receive the same kind of attention and affection in their homes, so when they come to school and are being treated like they are less than human, they begin to believe they are “annoying” or
The issue of strong skills are the key to surviving bullying this month was reported by Cosima Marriner on march 16, 2014 in The Age National online article. This assignment will be looking at Wilkinson and Marmots 2003 social determinants of health early life and social exclusion (bullying). Marriner states that those having a good social skills and not having difficulties at school in early life are much less likely to experience depression later in life than those who are bullied. Also those who bully others are highly likely to develop antisocial skills and experience depression later in life. This review will be forcing on how bullying and early life impact on each other and acts as a factor to impact the lives of children at later in life.
Unfortunately, it is not uncommon for children with disabilities in a Least Restrictive Environment to not have their needs met adequately. Some parents think that teachers do not have the proper skills to help their child with disabilities flourish in the classroom. Two concerns/challenges are that typical developing students will imitate inappropriate behaviors made by students with disabilities and students with disabilities could potentially get teased about their disabilities and inappropriate behaviors. As said by Virginia Buysse and Donal B. Baily, Jr. (1993) “… the opportunities for young children with disabilities to interact with peers in integrated settings must be carefully
Living with a child with special needs can have profound effects on the entire family including the extended family members, siblings, parents, and the child with the special needs. It can affect all aspects of family functioning, since they have to be on the watch for the child. On the positive side, living with a child with special needs can expand horizons, develop family cohesion, increase the family members’ awareness of their inner strength, and promote connections to community groups. On the negative side, this child will need time, physical and emotional demands and financial cost in order to make the child’s life comfortable. However, the impacts will depend on the child’s condition, and its severity, as well as the emotional, physical, and the financial resources available to take care of the child.
In one’s childhood it is apparent that the immediate family members have a significant impact on the way a child grows up. The environment a child is raised in can and will affect him or her in many ways. Developing siblings learn from one another through everyday play and family activities. The interactions within a family provide many opportunities to acquire social, emotional, and behavioral skills (Conger, Stocker, McGuire, 2009).
This would obviously affect children or teens with disabilities, despite the fact that schools are supposed to be a safe place for young students. Part of a teacher’s job is to help any student when they need it, especially considering they see the student approximately seven hours a day, five days a week. Despite this, “A quarter of young disabled people report feeling discriminated against in school...34% felt they did not get the help and support they needed from teachers and other staff” (Curtis). Students with disabilities do have certain differences from other students and in turn may be more difficult to deal with but, “More than a third (38%) said they had been bullied because of their disabilities, with one in 20 saying their bullies had been teachers” (Curtis). Bullies have to find something different about a person to have a reason to discriminate against them, and people with disabilities have that different quality. The bully may use this disability against the person because stigmas in our society have taught them it’s okay to discriminate against the disabled. Some people don’t experience this bullying, but they still may not get equal or appropriate treatment. Nathan Liu again spoke about his time in school saying, “My teachers acted super antsy around me…[they] didn’t know how to act around me...disabled kids were the ones who got hidden away in ‘special’ classrooms. They
The number of children with special educational needs and disability (SEND) in England is over 1.2 million with over 230,000 having statements or education, health and care plans, a number which has continued to rise over the years (Department for education, 2016). Described by the department for education (2014, p.7) as “Children and young people with SEN all have learning difficulties or disabilities that make it harder for them to learn…”. Within this assignment I intend to outline the provision made for a SEN child in my attachment, which will be referred to as Child A.
Disability: Any disease or problem that goes uneducated by people all over the world, especially in the United States. A disability is something that almost everyone has heard of but doesn’t know about in depth. “More than 600 million persons, 10 per cent of the world’s population, have a disability” (Pineda). You will see and hear of people that have a disability and use words that shouldn’t be used. A common connotation when you hear about people with a disability, is that those human beings are “mentally retarded”, “retarded”, or “special ed” but they are completely the opposite. People with a disorder don’t have a choice whether they are like that or not and putting them in that situation doesn’t help their self esteem any. “When you focus on someone 's disability, you 'll overlook their abilities, beauty and uniqueness. Once you learn to accept and love them for who they are, you subconsciously learn to love yourself unconditionally”, said Yvonne Pierre from The Day My Soul Cried: A Memoir. Being a normal person, you shouldn’t have any right in judging and making fun of disabilities people when you could be just in the wrong. Many people don’t know the extent of their words and how they insult people without knowing. Humans all over the world should
Raising a child with a disability may have some difficulties and challenges but it will have a lot of rewards; just as having a normal child. A parent want their child to live a normal fulfilling life as any other normal child. This life style will take extra patience, time and adaptive equipment and a special person to do it. When accepting that your child has a disability it is good to get all the literature on that type of disability. This will help you understand your child’s disability. A parent involvement is needed to find support groups, so they can get some insight on things someone from the support group has done to get certain things accomplished.
Everyone has been bullied or encountered someone being bullied at some point of their life. Whether it would be physically or verbally both can be exceedingly traumatizing and can have a long-term psychological influence on children’s development. Majority people may define bullying in a more physical term; nevertheless that’s not always the case. The act of bullying can occur in several ways and in reality affect the individual in the same way. Bullying is generally defined as repeated, negative, and harmful actions focused at target throughout a course of time, exhibiting a sense of power difference between the bully and the victim (Olweus, 1993; Limber & Mihalic, 1999 as cited from Douglas J. Boyle, 2005). A survey was conducted in the United States estimating that over six million children, about 30% in grade six through ten have experienced frequent bullying in a school environment (Nansel, 2001 as cited from Douglas J. Boyle, 2005). Many people might debate that bullying is something that every child goes through and is simply a part of growing up, although there are several damaging consequences that happens to the child’s brain. Bullying causes the child to feel upset, isolated, frightened, anxious, and depressed. They feel like they reason they are being picked on is because there is something wrong with them and may even lose their confidence feel unsafe going to school (Frenette, 2013 as cited from Douglas J. Boyle, 2005) Anthropologically, sociologically, or psychologically, bullying can be analyzed through different perspectives and several questions can be asked based on the topic:
In society today, there are many children and parents who face the diagnosis of having a developmental disability that would qualify them for special education and needs. This time can come with many questions for the parents when they realize the specialized care and education their child will need. Most often, questions arise about their schooling and how they will be included with other children, as well as what services are available to their child. How their disability impacts their life is a very valid concern because their education will be impacted. When a disability is discovered, it effects trickle down from the child to the parents, to the teachers and finally the medical and educational specialists.
Children are bullied for thousands of reasons, none of them are valid (Hile [pg. 26]). There aren’t any causes that puts a child at risk of being a bully or being bullied by others. It can happen anywhere in any city, town, or suburb. It also can depend on the environment, such as upon groups of gays, ...
Bullying is a devastating issue that threatens the well-being of today’s youth. Those who are most likely at risk are those who; have a learning or physical disability i.g., autism or ADHD, are underweight or overweight, are gay/lesbian/transgendered, or speak a different language. Of course, there are no specific guidelines of who will become victims of bullying. Children who are bullied experience lower self-esteem, greater loneliness, greater anxiety, and more depression in addition to the already stressful adolescent years. The longer the bullying occurs the more profound the symptoms can become. As a low-level, subtle form of violence, bullying creates an unsafe school environment and can lead to more serious types of violence among students (Whitted & Dupper, 2005).