All relationships go through both good and bad times. Some last through the ages, while others quickly fall into nothing. In Terrence McNally’s “Lips Together, Teeth Apart,” the heart of this haunting play is a dramatically incisive portrait of two married couples—the Truman’s and the Haddocks. Uncomfortable with themselves and each other, they are forced to spend a Fourth of July weekend at the Fire Island house that the brother of one of the women left his sister when he died of AIDS. Though the house is beautiful, it is as empty as their lives and marriages have become, a symbol of their failed hopes, their rage, their fears, and of the capricious nature of death. The theme of love and death in relationships is quickly developed, as well as an overwhelming fear of homophobia. The two couples McNally brings to life are both going through rough patches in their marriages. While Chloe and John are fighting through John’s esophagus cancer, Sally and Sam are expecting and fearful that this time it will be another miscarriage. Showing how society has struck fear into the couples about AIDS. While everyone except John is worried about catching “AIDS,” the play begins to unveil troubled marriages as well as superficial values and prejudices.
The conflict between love and death is set quickly and fully in both relationships. There are three very important symbols introduced that we are taught from a very young age. The first symbol is the gold band worn on the left hand, on the third finger. This is a widely known symbol for marriage, a bond we are taught to believe is always and forever. While that might not be the case anymore, at one point in time that gold band meant more than a piece of paper with names on it. The ring...
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...en amongst people and made it easier to relate to. After all we all experience anger, love nervousness; many of us fear death, fear rejection. “Lips together, Teeth Apart” is more than realizing that everything must end, it is more about self exploration in the end. Each character takes a turn unveiling their insecurities, making them voulnerable to the audience. Each character is relateable in some way, at some point. Not only does McNally show that every marriage goes through a struggle, but McNally shows that every person goes through a struggle. Taking societies view on such topics like AIDS and homosexuality through Sam or the nervousness of becoming a father through John. “Lips Together, Teeth Apart” brings more to the table than one might initially believe that once the story starts to unravel, the audience becomes lost in a sea of comfort and understanding.
Tish and Fonny rely heavily on each other for support. Fonny relies on seeing Tish at jail to keep his sanity. When Tish comes to visit, Fonny is able to escape the harsh life of the prison and escape to a time in which he is with the love of his life and his unborn child. The couple rely on each other to keep the other happy. As long as they have each other, they can endure anything. As described in Source E, you can take everything away except “your laughter”, symbolizing love in Tish and Fonny’s case, and one can get through anything (Source E). The strength of Tish and Fonny’s love allow the couple to conquer the world, head first. The love between the couple “strengthen you against the loveless world” ( Source A). It has allowed the couple to ignore the hard life society has dealt them to use their love to do what they can. The couple may be young but have discovered that their love is strong enough to get them out of the
It solidified the truth unacknowledged to them earlier--their friendships among each other were valued above their less than satisfactory marriages in their minds, something that if uncovered by their husbands would have surely placed them under detrimental suspicion. Throughout the story, after surviving the odds and preserving a dangerously unsteady life, the female characters proved that their devotion to each other could conquer the power struggle against the forced commitments they lived in. Society deemed their marriages to be untouchable and unable to be disputed in any way, but with the sturdy connections among them, wives found a way to tamper with the stereotypes and secure a better future for their fellow struggling
The first chapter begins with an exploration of love and marriage in many ancient and current cultures. Surprisingly many cultures either avoid the discussion of love in marriage or spit on the idea completely. China and other societies believed that love was simply a product of marriage and shouldn’t get too out of hand, while a few Greek and Roman philosophers shunned excessive
Usually in novels grappling with identity crisis, there is a downfall like for Brick’s struggle to be true to his sexual identity in Tennessee Williams’s play, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof. It was in a time when America did not tolerate same sex relationships, so each character acted in accordance with the sexual identity given to their genders. For Seymour, he is heavily praised like some kind of God for his...
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The tragedy of love, grief, despair, and betrayal created this significant play. As you can see from this paper, read the play with female trauma perspective, with the "American Dream" as the background, we realized the tragic fate of the female character Linda in the play is the most tragedy character than male character Willy.
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