There are numerous things that need to be addressed and since I cannot maintain a calm demeanor, I decided to write them down.
Lack of Friends:
I was never one to have many meaningful friendships. I enjoy talking with friends, but not so much hanging out and partying. I have always only had a handful of friends. Currently the people in my circle of friends are Marcela, Karen, and Terri. Honestly, I am happy with just those because once again I am not one to go out much.
Gina is no longer my friend… one day when I was on the way to our apartment, from moms house, I called her. She answered and had an attitude with me and asked what did I want. She had put me on 3-way with her lover. I told her I was just calling to check up on her, but that she was always treating me like shit so I did not want to be involved. I hung up. She never called me back. During my pregnancy, I tried reaching out to her, she never did answer the phone or open the door to her house. When she had absolutely no one in the world, not even her family, I was there. It is not fair that you question me about our friendship.
Zienna and I are not the best of friends anymore for two reasons. When she wanted information
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It is true. Since you have been in school, there has been added stress put on this relationship. I try to be understanding in the fact that you have not been in school for many years; however, before this semester, I felt as if I was doing the majority of the work. I am overwhelmed with being a wife, mom, and daughter, who works full time, goes home and takes care of everything a wife should, and also has homework. I want you to be successful, that is why I encouraged you to pursue your degrees. I do want you to graduate, with honors if possible. I do want you to pursue a Master’s degree, but the fact is that I am overwhelmed with everything. Even I have had doubts about going back and getting a simple paralegal
When that happens we slowly start to drift apart, a former friend is now nothing more than a memory. What is it that makes us stop communicating with each other? In my case it was a lifestyle change. My friend Kalicia and I were so close. We told each other everything. When I found out I was pregnant she was the first person I wanted to tell. At first she was beyond excited. I stayed with her and her family for the first half of my pregnancy. Then I moved to American Falls and everything stated to change. I was eight months pregnant when it all happened. Kalicia had invited me up to her house for my birthday celebration, but being that far along and having to work in the morning all I wanted to do was sleep. The next day, while I was at work she continued to call me multiple times, I knew something was wrong at that point. When I called her back she told me that her mom had passed out and stopped breathing. They had to do CPR on her until the ambulance arrived. I remember my heart dropping because she was like a second mom and I was so excited for her to meet my daughter. As I scrambled trying to get my shift covered so I could leave, I got the call that she had passed away. I remember that day like it was yesterday, the sky was dark, everything seemed grey, and heaven had gained another angel. I had never met such a vibrant and enthusiastic woman. She was understanding of every situation. Soon I felt
Allison and I still enjoyed being with our friends with the only difference being Shane who had started hanging out with a rougher crowd at school. The rest of us were considering him to be less of a friend and more of an acquaintance. That was mainly because his attitude had really changed and he wanted to fit into the image his new group of friends had. He
I was joined by an old friend and she was my whole world. She became my best friend, but recently she wasn't being very nice. She ignored me a lot and interrupted me when I was talking to another friend. I didn't know what was going on at home with her and maybe I wasn't being the nicest, but I did know that I was upset. However this was one of those things that is only for a couple of weeks. We got out of our funk and everything is fine between us
There are many types of people in the world and many types of friends. Knowing that, it becomes all the more important to select the right people so that one might have the correct friends, but which types of friends are required? There are ten different types of friends that everybody should have, each fitting into one of three categories: the occasional friends, the benefactors and the greats.
It’s basically the equivalence of not having a friend. I’ve asked Isabella to hang out with me many times, but she always says she’s really busy and can’t make it, and i 'm understanding towards her situation, but it becomes so consistent, that I begin to wonder if she actually is busy. Of course, I have a choice to not put as much effort into the friendship or just simply end the friendship, but I would much rather give her a chance and see how far the relationship lasts on current terms. After all, I don’t completely know what goes on in her life and whether she’s doing this on purpose or not, so it would not be fair to her to just end the friendship on my behalf. I’ll always be the one who tries to work things out in the relationship and compromise with what we have until there is nothing left to work with, but it gets beyond irritating when her lack of effort is more noticeable as our friendship
The second category of friends I call "social partners." This is because they are closer than acquaintances, but no where near as close as a true friend. Social partners are usually acquaintances who evolve into "guest friends" through increased extracurricular activities. You know their name, a little of what they like or dislike, a little of their family history, and usually have several things in common. As the saying
Tehen all of a sudden out of nowhere this former friend is never spoken again
Friendship is the most wonderful relationship that anyone can have. Ideally a friend is a person who offers love and respect and will never leave or betray us. Friends can tell harsh truths when they must be told. There are four different types of friends: True friends, Convenient friends, Special interest friends, and historical friends. To have friendship is to have comfort. In times of crisis and depression, a friend is there to calm us and to help lift up our spirits.
Throughout most of my life I have gained friendships and relationships with others that have turned into long term, but others which only lasted a short while. The friendship that has greatly impacted my life significantly over the last eight years is someone who means so much to me. This meaningful friendship all started back when I was in middle school, which has grown stronger over the years. I met Brooke in middle school because we had some of the same classes and were in homeroom together. Our friendship developed quickly and lasted throughout our high school years. We became really close our Junior and Senior year of high school. But, maintaining our friendship hasn’t always been so easy. Today, we text and call each other on our free time, but I know I can count and rely on her when I need someone to talk too. I call her my second sister and vice versa. And when we go home on breaks we see one another as much as we can. The best part of our relationship is that if one is in need of advice or in need of a shoulder to cry on, we are always there for one another. Keeping in contact is very important in our relationship and communication has played a key role in our relationship.
Have you ever been influenced by some important person that helped you be the person that you are today? I have been. The people that have had influence on me are the most important humans beings, my family. But before I begin talking about my family, I want to describe to you the place that we spend most of the time together which also means something important to me and my family. This place is called the family room. This room is small but cozy. It is painted in white and has three windows decorated with beautiful curtains. By the windows you can appreciate a nice view of some beautiful trees and a nice pool. On the walls there are some family photos like the ones that show where my brothers and I were born, my graduation photo, some family members photos like my grandparents, and some paintings made by one of my brothers. Also inside this room there is a nice home theater that includes a nice stereo and TV, and a new compact computer. But this is not all, this room has some very comfortable furniture and I can say that they are comfortable because I use them to watch TV, a movie, or just sit and rest. Also the furniture is used by my brothers to sit and play nitendo, to study, or play with the computer. But from all this furniture there is one chair that is the most cozy chair that I have ever sat upon and that is my father's chair. So this is our room, which is very important to us and has a lot of special things, but the most special part of this room is when it brings my family together.
When you spend time with friends you will notice that each one has a special personality that is different from anyone else. Friends have different traits and characteristics that create their individual personalities. For example, a good friend will show signs of a sense of humor, great advice, and honesty. Friends are very important to have in our lives because they are the backbone and support system when we face obstacles that are tough in our lives. Furthermore, friends are always there to love and comfort us through those hard times; showing their respect, honesty, loyalty, and care. There are three major types of friends, acquaintances, social friends, and best friends. Individuals inside of these major types has their own characteristics
I met my two best friends through my club and high school teams. The first one, Candace, I met in 8th grade at the club volleyball Halloween party where she was Cookie Monster and I was a zombie volleyball player. We hit it off from there, but we did not become close friends until our first tournament where our moms had planned for us to all share a hotel room. Until then, we had just been teammates, but that first tournament changed my life. We found that we were meant to be best friends and we became inseparable. Her family also had a major impact on my life because they became my second family and I became their second daughter. My second-best friend, Tori, I met during the summer before my 9th grade year. My high school volleyball coach, Putman, introduced us to each other because we were the only freshmen there. While it was awkward at first since we were both new to high school, we very quickly became friends. We were the only two freshmen to make the Junior Varsity team, so we became very comfortable with each other since we were afraid of the upperclassmen. After the highs school season, she joined my travel club team and that is where became the closest we had ever been. I had my two best friends on my club team, and those two girls taught me so much about what it takes to have a healthy friendship. If not for volleyball I would have never met them, and my life would
Friendships are one of the most important things you can get out of life. It’s something that everyone has to have because without it we would all go insane. Just think if no one talked to each other and we never made friends, this world would be a ticking time bomb. Studies say human need friendships and love to survive. So friendship is a big part of your life.
What does the word friend mean? According to Merriam – Webster dictionary a friend is one attached to another by affection or esteem. So I asked a couple of my ‘friends’ what the word friend means to them and friend number 1 said that for her, the word friend means “a person who is always there for you during difficult times”, friend number 2 jokingly said “a person who buys you food”, and for friend number 3 a friend is “the person who you can run to when you need something”. And for me, a friend is a person who you trusts and believes in you when nobody else does. We all have our own definitions of the word “friend” but what’s important is if they are the kind of friend who pushes you to
Throughout high school, I had my same friend group that I had since middle school and elementary school. I always tried to make new friends, and join groups when I could, but I learned that the group of friend’s I had were a great group. My friends and I were in many of the same clubs, which made it more fun being in those clubs, and knowing people.