Child support should be paid to the custodial parent from the non custodial parent. The way the system is set in place is to make sure non custodial parents are doing as they are suppose to and should be doing. Some say that the federal government should not force parents to pay this, but for some if it was left up to the non custodial parent to care for the child on their own they probably would not do it. The system keeps all parties involved honest.
Child support is a court-ordered fund paid by the non custodial parent to help the custodial parent with raising his or her child. Child support is usually brought to attention when the parents are divorced or separated. The payment amount is based on the non custodial parent and custodial parents’ income. A formula is used to decide what the non custodial parent is to pay. Child support is paid until the child turns 18 and graduates from high school. In some cases it continues until the child graduates from college. Child support was brought to light in 1975 by the federal government to help non custodial parents take care of the child/children when a parent is absent.
When asking non custodial parents about paying child support the largest complaint is that the custodial parent is not using the money given to the custodial parent by the system to take care of the child. In the state of North Carolina, a custodial parent does not have to show where or how the child support money is spent. In some other states, it is required that the custodial parent keep receipts for clothes, food, and house hold bills, like water and lights. This is a check system so that the non custodial parent can see that the money is being used on the child.
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...o help take care of the child in question. This needs to be a top priority to every state. Having the non custodial parent pay child support and keep paying ensures that the child’s needs can be met. Even though the non custodial parent may care about their child, some are just not willing to do what it takes to take care of a child, therefore they are forced by the state to do so. You never know when a person will change their mind and start acting a different way and decide that he or she does not want to care for their child anymore. With harsher regulations a parent would have to take care of his or her child no matter what the circumstances are. Either they care for their child voluntarily or involuntarily. Having the state to stop and look at those who do not have to pay and enforce the rules and regulations on them could make a difference in a child’s life.
In the United States today more than one-half of all marriages end in divorce. The purpose of this paper is to examine the reason why women have typically received custody of the children far more often than the fathers. In order to better understand child custody one must first examine how fathers have often times been left out of the picture, and conversely why mothers have had such hard times raising children on their own. This paper will first examine the perspective of a father who has lost custody of his children.
Legally, fathers are responsible for providing prenatal support for their preborn child, but have no legal rights if the mother decides to terminate the life of that child. Many fathers have gone to court to try to stop mothers from going through with their abortions. However, according to the courts, when it comes to abortion, a mother's right to abortion overrides a father's objections.
The state does not pay your entire bill. They subsidize your cost. In general, the assistance is for those that meet low income guidelines and who need help while they are attending job training programs, school or working. Having the availability of these programs helps student parents make better decisions. For example: over 80 percent of students attending Community college said that the availability of on-campus child care was very important in the decision to attend a college. 46 percent of students said that on-campus child care was their first priority when enrolling. 60 percent of students said that they could not have continued college without on-campus child care and 95 percent said that child care allowed them to increase their class load. Federal and state grants for child care for low-income parent’s average $4,600 per
...e best interest of their children. It’s not the amount of child support that is being paid that is important while you are doing the best you can for your children and supporting them the best way you can. Enforcing child support and having greater punishments are not just to make the nonpaying parents lives more difficult but to ensure a better life for their children.
Since the late 1970s there has been substantial change in the judicial system regarding child custody hearings (Symons, 2010). The end of the 20th century sparked a public demand for more custodial options including joint physical custody (refers to the day-to-day care of children), joint legal custody (refers to a parents rights and responsibilities regarding major decisions involving children) and a general increase in paternal involvement in children’s lives post-divorce (Symons, 2010; Atwood, 2007), 1982 marked the first year where a father in North America was granted sole custody (Amato, 2001). As recently as 1970, there were custodial cases granting sole custody to mothers stating that mothers make the best parents simply because they are mothers (O’Connell, 2007). Today we see many custodial options that range far beyond the traditional scope of sole custodian mothers and fathers with visitation rights or financial responsibilities (American Psychological Association, 2010). Juby, Marcil-Gratton and LeBourdais (2005) found that in Canada, sole custody awarded to fathers remains stable around 10% while joint physical and legal custody range between 25% and 50%.
Is child support benefiting the children as well as the parents to keep a stable environment? There has been an increase in children that go through a process called child support, which is the cause of their parents’ divorce or their split up before the child was even born. This process helps the custodial parent receive a certain amount of income from the noncustodial parent to help provide for the minor child(rens) necessities. Every single case is different, depending on what state you reside in or the income that each parent earns are two major factors. Over the years many people thought that only men were the ones that played for child support and where the noncustodial parent, but now the roles have changed and women are becoming more empowered to becoming successful.
Women that push for an abortion do not always have a partner that agrees and supports their decision for terminating the pregnancy. If the father is willing to support and care for the fetus, it is wrong for a woman to go against his wishes and follow through with an abortion. For a father to want to be involved in the fetus’s life means he is willing to take on the responsibilities of having a child so he should have a say if his fetus should be terminated or not. The Becoming A Father/Refusing Fatherhood article states, “To be a father-as-progenitor a man simply has to provide the sperm that leads to conception, whereas to be a father-as-carer a man has to take on a variety of social roles. The roles associated with the father-as-carer included disciplinarian, breadwinner/provider, guardian, moral compass, sex role model, guide and friend” (Ives 78). To have a father-as-carer in an offspring’s life gives a woman no reason to get an abortion. The woman is consciously aware of the outcomes of intercourse when willingly performing in such an act. In the Rethinking Roe V. Wade article it states, “if a woman concedes to voluntary sexual intercourse, she has incurred a responsibility to care for the fetus, since she is responsible for its existence and subsequent dependence on her body for sustenance. Consequently, she has a moral obligation to sustain it until birth, an obligation that ought to be legally enforced by proscribing abortions” (Manninen 41). The female is aware of the consequences when engaging in sexual acts so it should be her responsibility to carry the fetus to term. The presence of a partner that is willing to stay by the women’s side and support her during the pregnancy does not give her a reason to obtain an abort...
The website that contains the above sentence is a site that discusses stories about some men that do not believe they should pay child support. In some of the cases, the man is unaware that he was the biological father of the child, but was ordered by court to pay to help support the child. Other cases were about divorced couples where the man is upset about providing for the children after the separation even if they are his biological children. In the view of Daniel Callahan, the author of the article “Bioethics and Fatherhood”, this website is nonsense. He argues that, “given the obvious importance of procreation in bringing human life into existence, fathers have a significant moral responsibility for the children they voluntarily procreate”. In the situations where the biological fathers just don’t want to give up their money for the children, Callahan’s argument can be directly applied. For the other cases, the argument can still be used because those men had believed that they were the real fathers at first. The fact that they aren’t obligated to take on the responsibility of caring for that child, does not mean that all responsibility should be taken off the real biological father and put on the man that thought he was. The website, Women’s Health Care Services, also agrees with argument and says, “The father of a child has a legal responsibility to provide for the support, educational, medical and other needs of that child.” Therefore the dad should at least be there financially for their child.
Men have changed as well; men didn’t used to think that children were their responsibility. If they didn’t want to give their child financial support, they would simply leave and they didn’t spend time with their children, if they didn’t want to. However, things have changed as now, men are required by the law to support their children financially even if they get a divorce. Moreover,
Having children requires a lot of attention, time, love, and money among other things to raise them properly. There are some parents who are not willing to put forth this much effort in raising a child. That is sometimes where neglect and abuse start, the parent or parents decides that they really don’t want the child after all. They end up not having enough money like they once had, and the love and affection for their child is lost.
There are many aspects to being a parent and the parental role includes the legal authority to make choices for the child. Along with this control comes the duty to nurture and protect them. Children should have the rights to basic necessities such as a safe place to live and sustenance, as well as the opportunity to go to school. From an emotional standpoint, children should also receive care beyond these basic necessities and be shown love. This love should consist of guidance and appropriate consequences for behaviors, as well as the unconditional support and affection that a human being thrives on. (Fass, 2004).
From everyday experiences to recent news stories, I have come across many issues that large families face in America. Poverty and child abuse are top issues in the United States. For this reason, I believe the government should start regulating the number of children people can have based on financial stability, place of residence, criminal history, and other qualifications. The ideal American family image is one that provides parents that gracefully accommodate and nurture their children with open arms, financial cohesion, warm meals, and a roof over their heads. Although one might think these characteristics are a given, they are not as common as the general population widely assumes. There are many individuals deemed “unfit parents” who, despite complaints and adequate resources, continue to reproduce, putting children’s lives at stake. This brings up the question at hand: should up and coming parents be required to obtain a license to start a family?
According to the 2012 Census Bureau report, in 2012 the average household family income was around $51,017 dollars a year. The income is nearly split in half for the income of a single parent. Single parents are often financially unstable, decreasing opportunity and lifestyle quality for their children. “The single mother lives with the competing priorities of earning money and providing caring services to their children” (Bronnimann). To provide some aid to single parents, the government requires for the noncustodial parent to pay what is known as Child Support. Child support is a payment that the noncustodial parent must pay to make up for the financial costs he or she would need to contribute to the child or children to support their lifestyle. However often times the noncustodial parent does not earn a large enough income to pay a significant amount of child support. In some cases the noncustodial parent may be unemployed and unable to contribute at all. Children coming fr...
The most common reasons for father absence today are divorce, out-of-wedlock births, and incarceration. In most divorces the children are separated mostly from the father. Currently, the divorce rate in the United States if 50 percent, according to “Divorce in America Infographic” which was posted on the website titled, “Daily Infographic” (Jasmin, 2013). This data leaves you to assume that most children live with thei...
Single parents who work don 't always have a family or a friend that can take care of their children 's. Daycare, the only option when the child is too young for school but the cost of day care may take up, up to half of a bi-weekly paycheck. It becomes more difficult when you include your everyday needs, for example rent/mortgage, medical bills, gas, groceries and normal bills.” In 1989, 5.7 million women were due some kind of child support, according to the Census Bureau. But only half of these women actually received the full payment, and about one-quarter received nothing. The mean amount of child support received in 1989 was $2,995 per child. Payment of child support rises significantly when divorced fathers have visitation and custody rights, says the Census Bureau. “Single parents need to make sure they have enough money at the end of the month, however married couples have more of a straightforward path when it comes to all of this. For instance, when both parents work, their monthly income is considerably higher, giving them a further advantage when it comes to buying items, paying bills, and other necessities. In the scenario where only one-person works, it allows the other to take care of their kids so they don 't have to pay for a sitter or daycare. Depending on the earned income of the single parent, this determines if they will get government assistance. Government