Subconscious Influence on Self-Perception and Relationships

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While we believe that we are fully aware of our thoughts and decisions we are helplessly led by our brains subconscious, this allows us to address our self image as well our perception of others in a matter of seconds without realizing the brain activity occurring. In the text Reflect & Relate (Steven McCornack 2007), Chapter 2 describes the process and elements of self understanding and the components that lead us to this analysis of who we are. Chapter 3 applies the same process into the analysis of others and how people go about interacting and building relationships with other individuals. The film The Automatic Brain (2011) addresses the processes discussed in the text and goes into great detail of how the brain handles and processes …show more content…

Much of our first impression is developed before we even communicate. Our first contact with a person leaves us with a gut feeling about that person, this is an example of a gestalt or a general sense of a person being either positive or negative (McCornack 2007 p87). This first impression is derived from our subconscious analysis of the stranger’s characteristics. On the other hand, we can also preform a conscious analysis of someone using calculating algebraic impressions. In this process we make judgments based on every piece of new information about the individual. Even with the use of algebraic impressions our opinions are influenced by subconscious memories and past experiences that form biased stereotypes that we use to classify others. Stereotypes are used when little is known about an individual, we insert the information engraved in our memory to fill the characteristics that we assume that person has. It is easy to use this process to fill unknown information considering that 91% of what we see is added from our subconscious memory (The Automatic Brain 2011). Although we wish to claim we are unbiased, it is human nature to add information from our subconscious to fill the missing

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