Analysis Of Forgiving My Father

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"Forgiving My Father", a poem written by Lucille Clifton, is about a relationship between a daughter and her father. Lucille Clifton is a female poet/author for several poems and children 's book. She was born in 1936 "in a small town near Buffalo, New York"; she attended Howard University, and she earned her teaching degree at Fredonia State Teacher 's College. She won numerous awards and recognitions, including an Emmy, for her works. She died in 2010 after a long battle with cancer. "Forgiving My Father" is part of the collection in her 1980 book Two-Headed Woman (Schilb and Clifford 270). In this poem, Clifton described a daughter 's memories of her father led her to become angry with him, sympathize with him, and eventually forgive him. The poem starts out with the daughter 's visit to her father and demand for money; an old memory is haunting the daughter. feeding off her anger. The daughter calls the father "a ghost [who] stood in [her] dreams," indicating that he is dead and she is now reliving an unpleasant childhood memory as she stands in front of his …show more content…

She calls him "old lecher/old liar", which means when he was alive the father often made empty promises of false hope about mending everything, but the family could no longer wait for him (Clifton 9, 10). She wishes that her father was rich, so he would have money to pay the mother when she asks for his salary on Friday; he would be able to repay the mother all she deserved being his wife. The impatient tone is still there, but it is more mellow. Rather than expecting her father to cough up the money like before, she now wishes that he has the money. This is the turning point. In addition, the daughter explains how her father has grew up in the same circumstances, "son of a needy father,/the father of a needy son" (Clifton 12,13). She admits that her father "gave … all he had" even though it was not much (Clifton

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