Female Competition and Aggression

Why are females aggressive? Do they only use it to get the entities they want, or could it be within their genes? Each female, differs from the next female. Women have their own ways of showing aggression, and their individual ways of handling it. I think aggression is an attitude used by everyone, not just females. I am not an aggressive person, but I have been to the extremes in life. I have discovered techniques; later discussed in this research that will improve my viewpoint towards others. My lack of assertiveness keeps me from being an outspoken person as I should be . I am typically a shy, quiet person. Most females and males can be aggressive when competing for something he or she wants. I am slowly trying to act confidently towards others and become more assertive in my everyday decisions.

I plan to act confidently towards others by not letting other women intimidate me. I try to be mature within the person-to-person interactions that I have to deal with every day. I have learned that I am as good as anyone else is, and I should never let the looks of another female threaten my self-confidence. I still slowly have to manage these encounters, but I am confident that I am progressing.

Cause and Effect

In high school, I encircled many girls and boys. I was on the cheerleading team with about fifteen other females. They were all prissy. I was the odd one. Not one girl had an approachable attitude. These girls became accustomed to that behavior. They saw it at home, at school, and in their other environments. They did not know how to handle any mature situation without having an attitude. I began to think the males acted more established than the females. Thus, t...

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...men to get violent. I try to keep to myself and not use aggression, but I need to become more aggressive in a positive way. If I could be successful at becoming more positively assertive towards different female-to-female situations , I could approach everyday tasks.

Thus, women use aggression to get what they want, whether it is a man or material things . Not about myself yet, to other women, I have seen throw fits and start arguments over not getting their way. Usually, it takes more for a man to become aggressive because they do not normally care about small issues. Men seem more laid-back than women do. Women’s aggression usually occurs out of jealousy or trying to become something else. I convey this because everyone is jealous in one-way or the other. I get envious when I think that another female could harm my marriage, but that is just me worrying too much.