Addiction & Grace Book Review Gerald May’s book Addiction & Grace: Love and Spirituality in the Healing of Addictions is a wonderful book that addresses grace, freewill, and forgiveness around addictions. The reader should keep in mind that the book is written from May’s personal views and experience. May (1988) states that he is “neither a trained theologian nor a scriptural scholar [and] this book is full of my own theological assumptions” (p. vi). The book is written to help the reader understand how addiction keeps one’s focus on things other than God. The reader learns about the struggle with sin and how the conflict creates awareness to addictive behavior. While the book offers some great understanding regarding addictions and spirituality, it is also based on a reflection of May’s own personal view and experience with addictions. Definition of Addiction There are many different definitions in which people provide regarding addiction. May (1988) describes that addiction “is a state of compulsion, obsession, or preoccupation that enslaves a person’s will and desire” (p. 14). Individuals who suffer from addiction provide their time and energy toward other things that are not healthy and safe. The book …show more content…
Although we are given free will and choice it is the choice to relinquish ourselves to God and His grace. May (1988) argues that addiction attempts to gain control over the behaviors that lead to shame and guilt. This book may be implemented into counseling to help those struggling between release of addiction and increasing spiritual growth. Ultimately, May (1988) argues that there are three simple ways in stopping addictive behavior results in “don’t do it, refuse to do it, and keep refusing to do it” (p. 178). When clients are able to face the truth of addiction, in their abilities, and longing for God they can begin to fall in love with themselves and the desire to love
Understanding addiction is a complicated subject that inspires controversy and debate. Not only do people want to understand addiction because of the curiosity to understand human beings and human nature, but there are factors that go into the defining of addiction such as public policy and health care coverage. There are two theories that are on the opposite spectrum when it comes to addiction which include the “disease concept” and the “choice theory”. One defines addiction as a disease, something that is out of one’s control, while the other thinks of it as a choice or a moral deficiency that resides in a person. The consequence of this gap is the delay in gaining control over drug abuse. While the people who support the choice theory see
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This experience helped me to recognize the internal struggle that a substance abuser faces on a continuous basis. In addition, I know that an individual can have a difficult time changing their behavior even when they have a strong desire to change; the smallest thing can cause a person to relapse.
In the book, Addiction & Grace: Love and Spirituality in the Healing of Addictions, May explores how addiction develops and can be treated from a psychological, physiological, and spiritual standpoint. This theme is clearly shown through out the text as it shows addiction from a whole person view. The book covers the development of addiction from desire through the experience of addiction. The key focus on looking at the matter of addiction from multiple stand points in then broken down by explaining how addiction is an issue psychologically, physiologically, and spiritually. By focusing on these three areas the author is able to present the reader with a clear understanding of addiction from all sides of the problem. This is then followed by insightfully exampling the treatment process, specifically through grace as a key focus of overcoming addiction.
The APA refers to addiction is when a person at first starts to use something for pleasure as they enjoy it but then they start to use it or do it all the time which then interferes with their everyday life responsibilities. To analyse this case study the perspectives being used are social and evolutionary approach to psychology. The issue being analysed are the reasons why Chris may not be able to control himself and the reason why Jess might not want to help him.
The traditional, abstinence-focused addiction treatment believes that recovery is only possible if the addictive substance is completely removed from the life of the individual it affects. This model is rooted in the concept of addiction as a progressive, chronic and fatal disease that emphasizes inevitable
There are various religious and cultural messages involving sexual addiction. In today’s world sex equals power, everyone is thought to ...
Indeed, I can honestly say that my understanding and knowledge of addiction counseling has increased exponentially. The work performed in this class on the Biblical Word Study and the 12 STEPS program has given me a detailed introduction into this perplexing, multi-dimensional, continual process of addiction counseling. Honestly, I have to admit that in many regards to this scope of counseling I was completely ignorant and thought like many others that addiction is a choice and why can’t people just stop. After this paper I have a new appreciation for the helping profession and those struggling for sobriety. My ultimate goal is to allow God to mold me for His use and purpose to reach and introduce souls to my Savior; allowing Him to make their lives whole through me.
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A big challenge that I will face is deciding which side I will take on a big debate in substance abuse counseling. Some people say that addiction is purely physical, while others disagree and believe that addiction is mostly psychological. Those who believe that it is psychological believe that it usually stems from abuse or as Jane Adams (2003) thinks an over dependence on parents. This side also says that addiction is operant conditioning and that cycle has to be broken (Silverman, Roll, & Higgins, 2008, p. 472). The other physical side of addi...
Main Point: What defines an addiction? According to Psychology Today, “Addiction is a condition that results when a person ingests a substance…. or engages in an activity….that can be pleasurable but the continued use/act of which becomes compulsive and interferes with ordinary life responsibilities, such as work, relationships, or health.” This can range anywhere from drug use to eating disorders, to gambling, to even texting in today’s generation. Shocking to say the least, especially when most people do not even know they are addicted or are an addict until they realize this definition.
(Monroe, 2009) The Bible, which is the single guide for Christians to govern how to live for God, gives insight to the rooted concept of mindfulness-based relapse prevention. Paul writes “for those who are according to the flesh and are controlled by its unholy desires set their minds on and pursue those things which gratify the flesh, but those who are according to the Spirit and are controlled by the desires of the Spirit set their minds on and seek those things which gratify the Holy Spirit” (Romans 8:5 NASB) Paul establishes first that all desires good and bad starts in the mind but are controlled by two different entities. The flesh entity, which seeks self-gratification, will desire selfishness, self-pleasing instruction to determine how it will satisfy or cope. The entity, the Holy Spirit, seeks to transform the mind, body, and soul to conform it actions to the thoughts that are holy. This same Spirit wants to take captive the thoughts and desires that will negatively impact actions. The Holy Spirit will also become the personal self-monitoring mindfulness that will provide individuals a new way of processing situational instances. In relapse prevention, “the individual is trained to develop a system for recognizing early warning signs of substance related cues”. (Katie Witkiewitz, G.Alan Marlatt, Denise Walker,
Gerald May does an incredible job of integrating spiritual concepts and theology into the treatment of addictions in his book Addiction and Grace. He clearly asserts that all humans are born with the desire for God’s love. This desire is what gives our lives personal meaning. Addiction is defined as any personal attachment that takes an individual’s focus away from God. As human beings, we all have addictions; personal attachments that can be viewed as positive or negative. Addictions are not limited to substance abuse (i.e. drugs, alcohol, and food). Addictions can also include behaviors (i.e. love, work, family, exercise). It can be difficult to view loving someone as a negative addiction; however, Gerald
Addiction is a very strong word that brings along many negative connotations. When we think of an addiction we imagine someone who depends on a certain substance, most likely alcohol to have their needs met. Addiction is defined by the Webster dictionary as, "a compulsive need for and use of a habit-forming substance (as heroin, nicotine, or alcohol) characterized by tolerance and by well-defined physiological symptoms upon withdrawal." Even though our society sees addiction and only applies the word to drug addicts and alcoholics, there is a much wider range of subjects that fall under the umbrella of what an addiction truly is. An addiction is a dependency on any kind of materialistic object that you use on a day to day basis that brings
People who struggle with an addiction to drugs and or alcohol are more likely to find success in their recovery than those who do not. Children, mental health clients, and recovering addicts, all report less use, or reduced use of substances if they are engaged in some sort of religious activity. It has been eluded to the fact that the God theory works because religion promoted better family living, focusing more on school or their job, associating with individuals who do not promote the use of substances, and instilling an anti-drug attitude in the individual (Fagan).