Life is not easy, nor has it ever been. Thousands of years ago, prehistoric man focused his attentions on simply surviving. Everyday he awoke to daily struggles, whether it was obtaining food, shelter, or clothing; that list does not even include fending off the occasional hungry
saber-toothed tiger or voracious pack of wolves. Fortunately, achieving these basic needs has become easier since then thanks to technology and innovation. As a result of improved quality of life, however, new difficulties have arisen. Now, people must deal with societal views and cultural pressures that constantly add more stress and worry to life. No one has a harder and more stressful life than a woman. A woman’s life is more difficult than a man’s because she must endure reproductive responsibilities, maintain an attractive appearance, overcome discrimination, forfeit a career, and adapt to a naturally weaker physique.
Although men must endure some natural difficulties, such as a cracking voice during puberty, facial hair, and balding, these sufferings pale in comparison to those of women. In order for the human race to carry on, Mother Nature bestowed upon women the responsibility of conceiving and carrying offspring. Aside from the nine months a woman carries a child during pregnancy, she is forced to suffer through menstrual cycles. For up to a week before their periods, women can experience premenstrual symptoms, including mood swings, bloatednesss, tender breasts, acne, drowsiness, and cramps. This cycle occurs every month, from adolescence through about age fifty when women experience menopause, in which they suffer from hot flashes, continuous mood swings, and depression (*). When women do decide to conceive, they face the ...
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...hings against their will. The leading cause of injury to women aged fifteen to forty-four is domestic violence (*). Physical disadvantages not only limit women in their struggles against men, but their general struggles in life. Everyday chores such as lifting boxes or furniture are made more difficult. Add that to the fear of being taken advantage of, and one cannot feel but overwhelmed.
The life of a woman is filled with difficulties. Some of the obstacles, such as menstrual cycles, pregnancy, and inferior strength, are natural and unavoidable. They add stress to daily existence that men can only imagine. Other struggles, including maintaining an attractive appearance, overcoming inequality, and forfeiting a career, are engendered by societal pressures. Whatever the cause, the life of a woman certainly is not easy; compared to that of a man, that is.
Gender roles are a staple construct of human civilization, designating the behaviors and lifestyles that society expects out of its participants, with gender as the defining characteristic. Historically, females have been at the forefront of the conversation, with feminism regarded as the principal solution to the well-established issue of gender inequality. However, this is foolish. To truly mend the gender inequalities forged by thousands of years of human interaction, both genders have to be acknowledged. Both males and females are equally constrained by gender roles, however the effects of this constraint are in differing fields. There are studies showing that females are at a disadvantage economically, in the workplace, while other studies
In this paper I will be telling you many different forms of domestic violence. I will include the physical abuse, sexual abuse, verbal abuse, spiritual abuse, economic abuse, social abuse, and emotional abuse. I will also describe the "cycle of violence", teen dating violence, and why women stay with an abusive partner.
In conclusion, the invisibility of domestic violence has caused numerous negative effects on women, children and the overall structure of modern day society. Women have been affected psychologically as well as socially. Children have been disadvantaged by the effects of domestic abuse within the school environment and in the latter parts of their lives. (worldly statement).
Domestic violence can affect anyone. Domestic violence is a pattern of behavior used to establish power and control over another through emotional attack, fear, and intimidation. Domestic violence or battering, often, includes the threat or use of violence; this violence is a crime. Battering occurs when one person believes he/she is entitled to control another. Domestic violence affects people in all social, economic, racial, religious, and ethnic groups; whether the couple is married, divorced, living together, or still dating. Another reality is that abusers and their victims can be gay, strait, young, or old. Violence develops from verbal, physical, emotional, financial, and sexual abuse. Most domestic violence victims are women by men, but that doesn’t suggest that others cannot be battered or are perpetrators of abuse -- such as women on men, or same sex abuse. Battering or domestic violence, is now mutual and it is not a ‘couple’s quarrel’. Disagreements arise occasionally in all relationships, but battering involves every aspect of a relationship. While physical violence is the “enforcer” or the criminal act, other behaviors erode the partner or victim’s sense of self, self-determination, and free will; this is ultimately lethal for many women.
Even though self-defense is not a 100% solution to violence against women, it helps to reduce rates of recidivism. Physical and emotional disadvantages make women vulnerable to their human counterparts. Although is considerable the number of female violence by strangers, women that suffer abuse is in most cases by their partners. In both cases, the law does not have an effective strategy to prevent the problem, and it is very complex in cases of domestic violence because the victim is involved emotionally. In 2008, about 500 women were assault every day in the U.S. Additionally, children that grow up in a violent environment can be severely affected throughout their lives. The result of this
“And they lived happily ever after...” Little girls all over the world desire their love story to follow the path of these six promising words; but unfortunately for many young dreamers, this fairy tale finale becomes just the opposite of what they crave. These little girls grow up to become young women, and one out of every four will experience some sort of domestic violence in her lifetime. Domestic violence is “the willful intimidation, physical assault, battery, sexual assault, and other abusive behavior perpetrated by one intimate partner against the other.” While there are occurrences of domestic abuse against men, women account for eighty-five percent of all domestic violence cases (NCADV). Domestic violence against women is a much too common problem in the world today, but by raising awareness and teaching people to identify domestic brutality, the ability to eliminate the issue becomes a more realistic possibility.
Domestic violence is a pattern of behavior used to establish power and control over another person. It happens to all ages, all genders, it is physical, it is mental, and typically women are the victims of their male partners. Domestic violence happens in every corner of the world so the world needs to unite and fight domestic violence. Even though domestic violence goes back to 753 B.C, it has not been until recently, coalitions of domestic violence prevention agencies have provided help and guidance for battered women. If you have been abused in any way, then you should definitely get in touch with the organizations that are mentioned this essay to liberate yourself.
Women who have witnessed domestic abuse may turn out to be too passive in their relationships with men, which can shape their mental state and affect other aspects of their lives such as careers. If women grew up where their mothers, or other women figures, were physically abused, they may have percepted them as weak or fearful of men. Women can grow to adapt to this persona being that it was what they associated women in their lives with. Women who have this mindset will allow men to do whatever they please to them. Whether these men decide to hit, disrespect, or degrade them in any other way, these women would allow it because that is what they are use to. As unfortunate as this may be, this can hurt themselves mentally (Edleson). When women accept abuse, whether it be physical or emotional or mental, it scars them for life. For example, if a women were to be pushed to the floor everytime she does something wrong, she will learn to be fearful of making mistakes. This can hurt not only women’s relationships but their friendships or careers as well. If women were not able to stand up for themselves, friends or employers can take advantage of them or disrespect them, resulting women being miserable in every aspect of their
The main effect of domestic violence in women is to their physical health. In addition to causing injury, Heise et al. (1999) found that violence increases women’s long-term risks of a number of other health problems, including chronic pain, physical disability, drug and alcohol abuse, and depression (as cited in Alhabib & Jones, 2010).
Women between the ages of 16 and 24 experience the highest rate of intimate partner violence. With college campus domestic violence, there is more harm done mentally than physically. The broken bones, busted lips, and scratches can be healed but the women’s psyche may not. Domestic violence and other abuse is the most prevalent cause of depression and other mental health difficulties in women. Domestic violence causes women to blame themselves. A young woman that has been abused has a high chance of having low self esteem problems, higher suicide rates, and severe depression. Domestic violence chews away at a woman with self respect. It slowly but surely takes the confidence as it happens more often. The longer a woman is abused, the more she is taken away from reality.
Domestic violence is a major problem in the United States. When most people think of domestic violence, they think of one person beating the other person in a relationship. Webster defines domestic violence as “the inflicting of physical injury by one family or household member on another.” Domestic violence has a major effect on children. Some people say that the violence has no effect, while others argue that the violence has a negative effect on children. Domestic violence scars children for the rest of their lives. Once children witness the act of violence, they are more likely to have problems throughout the rest of their lives. Domestic Violence has a negative effect on the way children behave, the way they learn, the careers they choose,
The statistics available on violence against women are startling. Domestic violence is the major cause of death and disability for European women ages 16 to 44 and accounts for more deaths and injuries than automobile accidents and cancer. The Russian government estimates that over 14,000 women were killed by family members in 1999, but there is still no legislation that specifically addresses domestic violence. In South Africa, more women are shot in the home by relatives than are shot on the streets or by intruders (web.amnesty.org).
Violence is displayed everywhere in society through media like entertainment, in their schools and communities, and within their homes. It is difficult to imagine living in a world without some sort of violence due to it being so prevalent in society. Many children have been exposed to violence in their own homes or have become victims leaving detrimental short and long term effects. There are three forms of domestic violence in the homes. They are physical, sexual, emotional abuse. People often think of domestic violence as having bruises or a broken arm, but in reality it is an occurrence that happens repeatedly over a period of time. One study concluded “children in domestic violence shelters found that almost half their mothers had
Throughout the history of mankind, the rank of women has been extremely pivotal in the development of the humans. At present, the progress of the nation is determined by the high positions of the women in the society in terms of the employment and the work. It is said that without the contribution of the women in the political, business, social, economic and national activities, the growth of the country will stagnate. In the past, the women were more accustomed to working in homes and taking care of children, etc. but now they are stepping into the outside world due to advances in education for women and increasing awareness.
In today’s society the public tends to socialize gender to an extent. As soon as people are informed the sex of a baby, they automatically go out and buy blue clothes for boys and pink clothes for girls. We think of baby dolls for girls, and trucks for boys. What if it went further than that? During the Victorian era, being born a girl meant much more than little dolls and pink, it meant a lifetime of servitude. Being born into a family where one was raised under harsh conditions, then getting married off to be husband’s housewife, not just a wife. During the Victorian era, if one was born a woman she was automatically subject to a lifetime of servitude, and it took strong feminist views to deviate from the social norms. Most women tolerated the social norms and their “duties” of subordination, while others deviated and had their own ideas of what a society should represent.