Wish For A Young Wife, by Theodore Roethke

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“Wish for a Young Wife”, by Theodore Roethke, may seem to be more than just a simple epithalamium, for the way the poet presents his writing compels the reader to question his true intentions. Nevertheless, although it is easy for the reader to trip down this path, a closer reading, in which one pays particular attention to aspects such the poem's imagery, rhyme scheme, meter, and parallelism, allows them to acknowledge that as the poet appreciates his wife and elaborates on what he wants for her, it is in fact the ambiguity of the poem that doubles the effect of his sincerity and love for his young wife.

What is intriguing to note is that the poet does not gradually build a sense of obscurity in his reader, but instead, promptly begins with the imagery in the first line of the poem, “My lizard, my lively wither.” Evidently, the word “lizard” is bound to catch the reader's eye, as it is quite unusual for a writer to use a reptile when describing someone in an intimate, love poem. On top of that, it is preceded by the word “my”, as if the poet is envious of his wife's beauty and charm. Regardless, the most common terminology used to describe a reptile is that they are dark, mysterious, slimy, and cold, which forces the reader to question the poet's actual meaning. With this in mind, the reader could conclude that perhaps the speaker holds a grudge against his wife's beauty, because he thinks that there are other men in this world who deserve her more than him. What probably builds this sense of obscurity is that the title of the poem completely opposes this thought. Even before reading the poem, one could make the obvious assumption of placing it under the category of love. Nevertheless, once the words “my lizard” are read, t...

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... I am no one.” In both instances, the clause “when I am” is repeated, indicating that as the poem nears its end, the poet is finally inclined to mention himself. What is interesting to note is that throughout the rest of the poem, he speaks endlessly about his lover. Yet the words that he spares for himself provide a negative connotation of him, making it seem as if he intentionally did it to honor this woman, by positioning himself below her.

The poem “Wish for a Young Wife” by Theodore Roethke is simply a unique epithalamium. Although its title forces the reader to assume that it is a love poem, one does not has to read much further before they are tangled in Roethke's web of obscurity. Ultimately, this poem asks very little of its reader, discouraging one to dig too deep into it. Rather, to completely grasp its message, one only has to float on its surface.

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