What Does Marriage Mean?

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What does marriage mean to you? In “The story of an hour,” written by Kate Chopin and “The yellow wallpaper,” written by Charlotte Gilman shares some of the same thoughts on what a marriage should be. Both of these stories have some similarities and differences. The stories are similar in that each contains a controlling husband and the wives are facing a form of illness, as well as feelings of low self-worth. Both of the women feel imprisoned in their world but the difference is how they gain their freedom. A similar theme in both of these stories is the leading role of the husband in these marriages. The wife in both instances is largely a secondary actor whose arc and circumstance is decided by that of her husband. The husband plays the part of bread winner and decision maker. Whether through omission or an assumed role of that time period, it is implied that the wife in the story of an hour doesn’t work. Gilman addresses the issue of the wife’s lack of employment directly. “So I take phosphates or phosphites-whichever it is- and tonics, and air and exercise, and journeys, and am absolutely forbidden to “work” until I am well again” (221). Being the provider and decision maker lends itself to the husbands’ feelings of control. However the husband seems not to see himself as controlling or stifling, but as benign and caring. “He is very careful and loving, and hardly lets me stir without special direction. I have a schedule prescription for each hour in the day; he takes all care from me, and so I feel basely ungrateful not to value it more” (222). Both wives seem outwardly accepting of their husbands controlling and dominant behavior. However, inwardly both chafe at the yoke they find themselves living under. They ... ... middle of paper ... ...de that once called to her and seemed so vibrant and alive now seems less comforting than the dingy yellowness of her cell. “For outside you have to creep on the ground, and everything is green instead of yellow.” (228) Although these stories have some of the same similarities in that each contains a woman who feels imprisoned. The forms of their prison however are different. One is actually enclosed in both a room and in some aspects her own mind. The others prison is more one of life circumstances and her lack of power in the shaping or deciding these. Works Cited Gilman, Charlotte Perkins. "The Yellow Paper." Nicholas Delbanco, Alan Cheuse. Literature Craft & Voice : Fiction. New York: McGraw hill, 1892. 221-228. Chopin, Kate. "The Story of an Hour." Nicholas Delbanco, Alan Cheuse. Literature Craft & Voice: Fiction. New York: McGraw Hill, 1892. 13-14.

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