All too often, those who have little money envy people with more. This is depicted in “Richard Cory” written by Edwin Arlington Robinson, the narrator describes Richard as if he were royalty; rich, worldly, well spoken, and educated (677). He wished he could be Richard, and live with all the pleasures afforded the wealthy. Is it possible Richard had the reverse in his mind when he ended his life? Money appears to be a key that unlocks happiness to people on the lower end of the financial spectrum. If that were the case, then those who are well-to-do should be measurably happier. Studies give conflicting evidence as to a possible link between wealth and happiness, but for those with lower incomes it is there. While the issues plaguing the affluent are different, they struggle to be satisfied as well.
Humans are inherently competitive, always have been and always will be. This applies to all aspects of our lives beginning at an early age. In school we compete to have more friends, higher grades, be better athletes, and the list goes on. The goal is to be the best, have the most, and earn the highest. We are just beginning to prepare for our lifelong competition with the Joneses. That is, trying to amass an equal or greater level of wealth and social status than the other people in our environment. The belief being that happiness comes from having more. Studies show that fifteen percent more rich people claim to be “very happy” when compared to poor people. This gap has remained over the years with the percentages not changing while observed incomes for each group have all grown dramatically (Layard 25). This shows as individual income and wealth grow, happiness is not increased with it. If happiness were depend...
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...de of being rich, with not having to worry about food, bills, and the like. Lane made these observations as well; “Money does not reduce worrying; it simply changes the subject” (59). Having such a history of believing that more money will bring increased happiness to look back on, why do people continue to fall into the trap? Happiness and satisfaction come from somewhere within ourselves, there are no other sources.
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