Stereotypes in Today's Society

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Stereotypes in Today's Society

In "The Armored Knight of the 20th Century", Robert Lawlor seems to categorize both men and women into narrow groups which, in my opinion, do not adhere to the majority of people. To begin with, he states that all men are manipulated by the media into being attracted to the "Model Starlet Type" of woman, and in order for men to attain the company of these women, they need to succeed in sports, business, and other forms of competition. He also states that these "Model Starlet Type" women are usually attracted to older men because they are more capable of achieving success in sports, business, and other various competitions.

I feel that both of these statements are incorrect. I do not feel that the majority of women are attracted to men due directly to their performance. In my experience, women seem to be more concerned with a man's personality than with his performance. It is often the male who feels that he must preform well in sports/competitions in order to receive female attention. One of my High School friends, Aidan, was an excellent athlete. He excelled in soccer, tennis, and track. Despite his constant stellar performance in these sports, many women would not date him because he was a cocky, immature person. In addition, I do not think that women date older men because they are more capable of attaining success in competitions than younger men. Women seem to date older men because they are more mature than younger men, and not because they are more adept at achieving success. I have seen many instances where women have turned towards older men for companionship because guys their own age were too immature for them.

Lawlor and I have opposing ideas about the relationships between men...

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...eir personality, not their performance.

Though these stereotypes are wrong, and one of our society's major problems, it is very hard to do anything about them. Lawlor, for instance, most likely included stereotypes in his essay without even knowing it. In order to prove this thesis, he had to call upon these stereotypes. Though Lawlor may have unintentionally used stereotypes as a way of proving a point, we as a society need to open our eyes, see what really goes on in our lives, and do away with these stereotypes. The more diverse, the more multi-cultural our country becomes, the more the people of the United States will be forced to acknowledge this diversity in race, gender, and culture. This will bring about the downfall of stereotypes in today's society.

Slowly, our country is becoming more diverse, and slowly, the world is being rid of these stereotypes.

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