Love in To His Coy Mistress and The Flea
Both 'To His Coy Mistress', by Andrew Marvell (1621-1678) and 'The
Flea', by John Donne (1572-1631) present different attitudes to love.
Both are also structured very differently and occasionally use
contrasting imagery. Each poem was written in the 17th century, just
after the Renaissance. The poets were metaphysical poets. Although the
'metaphysic' was originally a derogatory term, metaphysical poetry
used intellectual and theological concepts in an ingenious way.
Metaphysical poetry was partly written in rebellion against the highly
conventional Elizabethan love poetry just prior to the time.
Conventional love poetry what one would generally expect of a love
poem. A perhaps typical love poem of the era would have been: 'Shall I
Compare Thee To A Summer's Day,' by William Shakespeare (16th sonnet)
where lavish compliments and imagery are used to flatter. 'The Flea'
and 'To His Coy Mistress', however, are very unconventional and like
most metaphysical poetry are the complete opposite of what a reader
might expect of love poetry. The poems do this by using the
'metaphysical conceit', where an elaborate metaphor or simile is used
to present an unusually apt parallel between dissimilar things or
feelings. This is shown especially in 'The Flea'. The poems also
tended to challenge conventional rhythm, using a ragged, irregular
movement.
The consummation of love is presented as a tiny, insignificant
creature in 'The Flea', through one basic central image. The imagery
symbolises the act of love to make it seem trivial, this being the
speaker's main argument. This implies that love is not part...
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changes to suit the lover's actions. This is significant as it shows
that although he appears dominant in the relationship, he is still
completely reliant on the lover. This indicates that typical relations
between men and women were that men had the power over women in a
sense, yet here this woman's permission is essential.
The fact that Marvell uses time imagery is relevant to love in the 21st
century as his issue that time is always 'hurrying near' (L.22) seems
to give Carpe Diem a great significance. It seems that his strong
confidence can have great influence on not only the lady that he is
wooing but also the world. The passion expressed and the underlying
message translates into the modern cliché that life is simply 'too
short' to suppress true love.
¹ Note: This point was researched on the Internet.
to be scared out of her state of mind and into his beliefs. He starts
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trying to portray a message to us: It is not what is on the outside
Marvell's piece is structured as a poem but flows as a classical argument. He uses the three stanzas to address the issues of time, love, and sex. In doing so, he creates his own standpoint and satirizes his audience in the process. Using appeals to ethos, pathos, and logos; logical reasoning; and even a hint of the Rogerian technique - Marvell proves that acting now is essential. The logical argument for the "carpe diem" theme is built up from beginning to end.
John Donne's, "The Flea," is a persuasive poem in which the speaker is attempting to establish a sexual union with his significant other. However, based on the woman's rejection, the speaker twists his argument, making that which he requests seem insignificant. John Donne brings out and shapes this meaning through his collaborative use of conceit, rhythm, and rhyme scheme. In the beginning, Donne uses the flea as a conceit, to represent a sexual union with his significant other. For instance, in the first stanza a flea bites the speaker and woman. He responds to this incident by saying, "And in this flea our bloods mingled be."
"Sonnet 130," by William Shakespeare, is probably a mockery of love poems of his era which focus mainly on comparing the loved one to nature and heavenly characteristics. An example of such poems is "Epithalamion," by Edmund Spenser, which sticks to the conventionality of it's time. Shakespeare's style used conveys his love for his "mistress" in an honest and sincere way without "false compare," which makes it more acceptable than the poems of his time. He does not in anyway think of his love as a goddess or a heavenly creature, but in spite of that, his love "as rare," which makes it realistic and charming at the same time.
At the time of its writing, Shakespeare's one hundred thirtieth sonnet, a highly candid, simple work, introduced a new era of poems. Shakespeare's expression of love was far different from traditional sonnets in the early 1600s, in which poets highly praised their loved ones with sweet words. Instead, Shakespeare satirizes the tradition of comparing one's beloved to the beauties of the sun. From its opening phrase "My mistress' eyes are nothing like the sun", shocks the audience because it does not portray a soft, beautiful woman. Despite the negative connotations of his mistress, Shakespeare speaks a true woman and true love. The sonnet is a "how-to" guide to love.
In the days of Shakespeare, marriages were not commonly made for love, but rather for power, wealth or even just so that a parent could be assured care at an advanced age. Such marriages were made very young, and most times arranged between the parents of the two who were to be wed, or between the bridegroom and the parents of the bride. In looking at A Midsummer Night’s Dream, this notion is not exempt. In fact, it is almost emphasized throughout the play. Shakespeare’s comedy offers an exposition of a person’s wish for dominance over the emotional states of those that they love, represented by the tandem conflicts that bridge the mortal and supernatural worlds. The more the characters fight to control the affections of their counterparts, the more it becomes clear that they have virtually no control over where the objects of their affection’s own love lies, such as that of Hermia and her father’s wishes, Oberon and Titania, and a role reversal in the case of Helena and Demetrius. Although the play is meant to be as absurdly comedic as possible (and, indeed, even the great trickster Robin Goodfellow apologizes in the end for its ridiculousness), this central theme truly reflects the flavor of a changing era, where outside arrangements of love were beginning to be traded in western Europe for arrangements from the heart.
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