Parental guidance.
You hear it all the time in our world, “Be safe online, don’t go online without a parents permission, and internet safety.” We hear this on a daily basis, it’s the world we live in now. Younger kids are on social media, Like Facebook, Twitter, Myspace, and so many more sites, according to an online poll [www.statisticbrain.com/social-networking-statistics], 58% of people have some form of social interaction online. and 73% of teens have social media. [http://www.netsmartz.org/safety/statistics]!This leads many adults to worry about their children, and why shouldn’t they so many adults are saying that they should have more control on what their kids do on the media sites! It is a scary thing to think about. social media lets you talk to anyone, so who could your kids be talking with. Yet that’s not the whole story, we all know the internet is scary but should we really have parents and guardians looking over their kids shoulder after everything they do online? Let’s just take a second and think about this; Your kid will grow up, he will become an adult with his own life and their own computers. they won't have you looking at their every move, they will grow up and wouldn’t it be nice to give them a little more trust online, and know that if something happens they can handle it. Also, if you don’t want your kid to be in any danger online, you shouldn’t have let them ever know what the internet was, because no matter what you do in life, offline or online, there are dangers it’s just the way it goes. And last those kids need to be able to do their own things and make their own mistakes, if you sit there and puppy guard them then what happens, years later, when something happens and they have no idea what to do. T...
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...that u should be standing over their shoulder waiting for them to mess up. It is a game of balance and it’s up to you, the parent, to decide which is best.
In conclusion, social media can be a scary place for parents to think about. But they don’t need to worry, there are privacy laws, blocking tools on laptops, and many social media websites take precautions to making sure everyone is safe in their domain. So next time you have a talk with your child about being safe online, remember, it’s okay to give them a little trust on facebook, or any other website like that. Just make sure you do tell them how to be safe and prevent bad things from happening. Cause you won’t be there to help them forever.
Works Cited
www.statisticbrain.com/social-networking-statistics http://www.netsmartz.org/safety/statistics http://kidshealth.org/parent/positive/family/net_safety.html
Williams, R. (2014). Children using social networks underage 'exposes them to danger'. [online] Available at: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/technology/news/10619007/Children-using-social-networks-underage-exposes-them-to-danger.html [Accessed 24 Apr. 2014].
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